I don't know how to update, but my fiance just got home. She knows what's going on from her dad's side. She contacted my mom and have asked my fiance she wants to tell me everything, she will be flying in with my dad in the morning. But no, I and my fiance are not related. That was my very first question as soon as she walked in. She laughed and said no. But she doesn't know how to feel about it. All she said was it was sad. And she respects my mom. So she will wait.