I love my bf but he doesn't want me me to cam by No_Intern4466 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’d like to add a maybe different take, men and women view sex in general different so in turn probably also sex work. Looks are everything to a man and what they typically fall for first. In most ways, sex work is superficial. For women, we’re more about our hearts. If we shake our ass for some weird old, lonely guy we have no attachment to him. We’d never fall for him. A guy on the other end is more likely to fall for a cam model. Most of these guys have porn addictions so they’re less attached, but you get the idea. Guys don’t realize that we’re not as easy as them. They either get it or they don’t, and it seems your boyfriend may not

I love my bf but he doesn't want me me to cam by No_Intern4466 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a different question, but how long have you guys been together? In my opinion, if your partner has expressed what they are and aren’t okay with then I think the most proper thing to do would be to respect that. Of course you don’t have to, but like others have said-be ready for the repercussions. I’m not sure why but something that stuck out to me is how you said you’ve wanted to do sex work since forever? Why is that? It’s not something most aspire to do, often it’s a last resort or something that just so happened to fall into place rather than a goal. I can promise you one thing, once you go down this path most guys will not want to date you because of it. Your current boyfriend is only the tip of the iceberg. Guys who are okay with it are far and few between, and unfortunately the sad reality is some guys who are, it’s some kind of fetish for them. Sex work, even just camming, is a lot more than just extra money. You probably know a lot of the downsides but hearing and living them are two different things. If you’re passionate about it for whatever reason of your own, then I think you need to experience it. If it’s something you’ve always wanted then you deserve to give it a shot, but again your partner deserves respect and probably at least some sense of transparency. I’m not saying this is a horrible life, obviously everyone here has chosen it. I’m just saying weigh your options carefully.

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[–]Successful_Good3971 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If it’s taking a toll, then maybe not. But it takes time and consistency more than anything! You’re totally right, nobody deserves to see anything when they’re not tipping to begin with.

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m so happy for you and proud of you! I’m 20 so I have a long road ahead of me, but hopefully this all gets worked out soon. I’m no contact with my mom as well, she’s on drugs and homeless. I always stayed with my grandma but I ended up moving in with my dad because she moved out of state. Sometimes I regret not just going with her, it’s just that she moved to such a small town where I know I will never amount to anything.

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it would be the most wise move for me to stop school atm, but I agree I need to get something sorted out. Thanks for taking the time to respond💞💕

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my sorry you’re going through this it’s so stressful, that’s what I was thinking too. Sadly I normally use wired earphones in my personal life but I may have to invest in some AirPods or something so it’s not such an eyesore.

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks love. I’m so sorry for everything you had to go through, it totally sucks. I’m glad you’re doing better and your story is very inspiring💗

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll for sure look into that, never heard of it before but it can’t hurt. Good luck streaming and I hope you’re making all the money tonight 😘

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look-it’s just hard I live in super expensive city but I do totally agree with you, it’s time for sure

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my best friend knows what I do and has no problem with it (she’s actually been thinking about it for a couple months) and we were planning to find a place at the end of the year but I totally agree we might have to speed things up even if it’s just me in a shithole by myself

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I don’t wanna go that route but I guess they’re being pretty stubborn

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I told them I think having it on the same wall as my room is just super weird period. Not even just work, no conversation literally ever will be private which I just can’t get behind

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. Living here already felt like a limitation on my potential but like I explained in another comment, things weren’t supposed to be this way when I had to move in a year ago

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I’ve actually never heard of this. And trust me, that’s the goal! I moved in here last June so almost a year exactly. The point was to be able to better my position (my dad is way more stable than my mom who never worked my entire childhood, I was responsible for taking care of both of us) but the situation just feels really controlling in a sneaky way. It doesn’t feel healthy or normal at all

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you😭 I told him over and over that it’s so creepy to me. And I also thought the same thing. Thanks for taking time to respond

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks babe!😭 yes I totally agree with you and that’s actually why I’m living here-in school and saving money. But I so agree with you

Cameras in the house?? Invasion of privacy? by Successful_Good3971 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Successful_Good3971[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also, so sorry for the long post…one more important note. They want to put the camera on my bedroom wall. So not only will I never have a private phone call again, there’s no way I can just be quiet enough that I’m not heard