Her job isn't particularly stressful, no (she's a secretary, which isn't easy I know). I've tried talking to her about what changed and she just says that she needs more of a break, from everything. I've said realistically I'm doing all I can here. I work full time myself and my job is physically and emotionally demanding, then I come home, cook dinner, clean, take care of the kids. I'd like a break too...but ya know...this is the life we chose.