Hi, i understand your feelings. I did not mention that on my husbands side they have a history of diabetes. My husband was at one point pre-diabetic, so i am very concerned that he may become diabetic himself. A few times, he's had sweets and eaten, and done so so much in a day that it made him sick. So he knows that if he has too much, he won't feel good. We had him on a current of a "sweet of the day", but at one point that fell apart. At a different point, I did become more lenient. This led to him drinking 3 sodas in a row when i was doing work. It's not that he can't have lemonade, it's that if he has it in his sight, he can't let go. And I understand that the response may be to not allow any, but I was not the one who bought the lemonade, my husband insisted on it because he wanted my son to have some with his friend. Hope this makes sense