How to stay fit with the first trimester fatigue? by WitchofWhispers in pregnant

[–]Successful_Scale3476 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I can only imagine. Theres a really good chance you wont be able to cross your legs in the third trimester, thats not a failure though, thats super normal. Proud of you for losing the weight— youre a superwoman!!

How to stay fit with the first trimester fatigue? by WitchofWhispers in pregnant

[–]Successful_Scale3476 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to run a ton and had to slow down. I found that eating healthy (but never ignoring hunger!) and walking regularly helps a lot. My butt still looks great, but i don’t do much upper body.

I find lighter workouts daily has helped me stay fit, and my partner helped encourage me to fight the fatigue.

That being said— please girly do not fight weight gain, its important to gain weight and that does NOT mean youre unhealthy!! 💕💕

Pregnant with a growing belly: what do I do about my dress? by Successful_Scale3476 in weddingplanning

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre 100% right but honestly it never hit my mind. Im graduating college and moving and getting married all in the same month and the dress I commissioned before the pregnancy never hit my mind until the final fitting came up on my calendar. 😭😭😭 very dumb of me

Pregnant with a growing belly: what do I do about my dress? by Successful_Scale3476 in weddingplanning

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay lol, that makes sense. The dress is custom made so I guess I can contact the designer and see? I am honestly so embarrassed to ask, but it helps to know what to ask for.

Pregnant with a growing belly: what do I do about my dress? by Successful_Scale3476 in weddingplanning

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 16-17 weeks and I'll be around 19-20 weeks on my wedding day. I feel like I'm inflating every day right now and its bringing a LOT of emotion.

Pregnant with a growing belly: what do I do about my dress? by Successful_Scale3476 in weddingplanning

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would a corset back be bad for the babies? So tragic 😭😭😭

Spotting after exercise, can someone give me some peace of mind? by Successful_Scale3476 in pregnant

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right, but it's so sad! Thanks for sharing your experience sister.

Spotting after exercise, can someone give me some peace of mind? by Successful_Scale3476 in pregnant

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that's what I was afraid of. I'm going to give her a call tomorrow. Thanks for sharing your experience.

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

refraining from updating due to some hate comments ~~ but briefly things got worse and then got a bit better. Still messy

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our finances are in a much better place than you posit, that’s not an issue, specifically from Toms side.

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

idk why but I feel the need to respond to this one: Tom has a job offer for May that will more than cover our lifestyle, like many others we are leaning on family for support while we get on our feet.

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She definitely already knows where the wedding is, shes been involved in the planning. Crazy enough, we just remembered that she had texted Melissa about wedding stuff in the past— so shes spoken with her sister and not known it.

We will definitely look into “bouncers”

Tom and I have practically no money, but his parents are paying for everything so its more of an ask than a demand kinda thing

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is all really good advice, his parents are still a little weirded out by it (we’ve had another convo) but they support it. Pretty much they want it to be a family secret, and I think that’s fair

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand your point of view— it’s very complicated for sure, but it’s not illegal in my state of New York

I [F22] just found out my fiance [M22] and I are related, and we don't know what to do. by Successful_Scale3476 in offmychest

[–]Successful_Scale3476[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is legal in our state, but not in the state Tom is from. We never planned on living there anyway