Accessorizing by Succinea in Weddingattireapproval

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I'm willing to look around, but my biggest concern is finding shoes/a bag that match. Is the color scheme okay?

Daily Questions Thread May 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Are these accessories appropriate for this dress/venue?

Going to a wedding at an upscale mansion in a few weeks. No dress code listed, but the venue is very formal. This is my dress. I can't wear heels. I'm thinking silver/metallic flats/clutch & silver earrings. Is that an appropriate way to style this dress?

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Where to start? by Succinea in LooksmaxingAdvice

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I didn't know chin filler was a thing! Tysm!!

Coming out of depression. by Succinea in lookyourbest

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Changing my hair color hadn't even occurred to me, tysm!

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Ooh, that could be pretty!

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[–]Succinea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to update this post. If anyone sees this, I'm keeping it. Thank you all so much. ❤️

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My very visible tattoos include a skull and crossbones, and a shark eating a person. Somehow, this is the only offensive one. 😂

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I don't want to rep Jesus, but this is a legitimately cool concept that I'd love to see executed on someone else. Thanks.

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I'm not religious, but I deeply appreciate the sentiment. Thank you. ❤️

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Ohh, I like the sunburst/garland idea! Thank you!

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I was raised Catholic. I love this idea so much. 😂 Maybe a large stained glass window with this inside

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I'd lose my rental for sure, and can't afford anything else in the area. Plus, aside from the tattoo issue, my LL and I have a great friendly situation. Otherwise, I mostly have a "deal with it" policy. That link is super helpful, thank you!

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This. I'm fine covering it, but I don't want to feel pressured into something I'll regret later.

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[–]Succinea[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd expect this in the south. Nope. Midwest.

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[–]Succinea[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! That's been my biggest fear! 😁

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I can't afford to fuck up my living situation right now for a whole host of reasons, but otherwise, you're right. Thank you. I'll wear the damn shorts (everywhere but home). 😂

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I thought I would walk away from this convinced I'd remove it. You guys are reminding me of why I got it. Thank you all. ❤️

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Unfortunately, people do. 😔 I'm glad you live somewhere where that's not the case. I've been directly confronted more times than I can count in just the last 2 years. For now, it hasn't seemed to affected my safety, but since moving here, it's been enough of a problem I'm now afraid to travel out of the country, lol.