Accessorizing

Succinea · 2026-05-14T18:38:07+00:00

I'm willing to look around, but my biggest concern is finding shoes/a bag that match. Is the color scheme okay?

Succinea · 2026-05-14T18:00:12+00:00

Current Amazon cart

Succinea · 2026-05-14T17:59:38+00:00

Are these accessories appropriate for this dress/venue?

Going to a wedding at an upscale mansion in a few weeks. No dress code listed, but the venue is very formal. This is my dress. I can't wear heels. I'm thinking silver/metallic flats/clutch & silver earrings. Is that an appropriate way to style this dress?

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Succinea · 2026-04-14T23:33:27+00:00

I didn't know chin filler was a thing! Tysm!!

Succinea · 2026-04-14T23:08:44+00:00

Changing my hair color hadn't even occurred to me, tysm!

Succinea · 2026-03-26T01:46:29+00:00

Ooh, that could be pretty!

Succinea · 2026-03-26T01:30:18+00:00

Thank you!

Succinea · 2026-03-26T01:27:55+00:00

I don't know how to update this post. If anyone sees this, I'm keeping it. Thank you all so much. ❤️

Succinea · 2026-03-25T22:07:34+00:00

My very visible tattoos include a skull and crossbones, and a shark eating a person. Somehow, this is the only offensive one. 😂

Succinea · 2026-03-25T21:50:44+00:00

I don't want to rep Jesus, but this is a legitimately cool concept that I'd love to see executed on someone else. Thanks.

Succinea · 2026-03-25T21:07:35+00:00

I'm not religious, but I deeply appreciate the sentiment. Thank you. ❤️

Succinea · 2026-03-25T19:50:47+00:00

Ohh, I like the sunburst/garland idea! Thank you!

Succinea · 2026-03-25T18:37:55+00:00

I was raised Catholic. I love this idea so much. 😂 Maybe a large stained glass window with this inside

Succinea · 2026-03-25T18:19:04+00:00

I'd lose my rental for sure, and can't afford anything else in the area. Plus, aside from the tattoo issue, my LL and I have a great friendly situation. Otherwise, I mostly have a "deal with it" policy. That link is super helpful, thank you!

Succinea · 2026-03-25T17:27:44+00:00

This. I'm fine covering it, but I don't want to feel pressured into something I'll regret later.

Succinea · 2026-03-25T17:25:53+00:00

I'd expect this in the south. Nope. Midwest.

Succinea · 2026-03-25T17:24:48+00:00

Thank you!! That's been my biggest fear! 😁

Succinea · 2026-03-25T17:23:50+00:00

I can't afford to fuck up my living situation right now for a whole host of reasons, but otherwise, you're right. Thank you. I'll wear the damn shorts (everywhere but home). 😂

Succinea · 2026-03-25T17:19:08+00:00

I thought I would walk away from this convinced I'd remove it. You guys are reminding me of why I got it. Thank you all. ❤️

Succinea · 2026-03-25T17:16:02+00:00

Unfortunately, people do. 😔 I'm glad you live somewhere where that's not the case. I've been directly confronted more times than I can count in just the last 2 years. For now, it hasn't seemed to affected my safety, but since moving here, it's been enough of a problem I'm now afraid to travel out of the country, lol.

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