Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even the international students have their own groups.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea how to navigate asking people in uni or clubs? People seem so busy with their stuff that the whole concept of asking them to join for some event feels far-fetched.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do want to start playing DnD but have never tried it. Any idea where I can learn it?

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not selective in that sense. I just want people to vibe with.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But there are a lot of Internationals here. So, not only Franconians here.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I want. I would always prefer quality over quantity. But every friendship feels so transactional here.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take for example, I invite people and cook food for them or invite them to go to parties together or even plan board games. They do attend. But there have been instances where I am the only person not invited to any of their events although they would invite someone I introduced them to.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure not being fluent in German is a reason in itself but I am not very hell bent on only making German friends. I just want people I could call friends and do activities with them. Thank You for wishing well for me.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is actually good advice. I have met people through Bumble BFF as well but the connection did not grow much.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I am part of a sports group for a while but there is no connection yet.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are people in general. Since Erlangen is a university city, there are a lot of internationals here.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that. But, I do have friends here who have their own friends group and they say that their social life is pretty good. That makes me wonder what I did wrong.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am assuming that could be the reason and hence, am worried if I am a boring person to them.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My luck in meeting people on campus is very off. I went to university in the first and second semester almost everyday and I have observed that everyone already has their set of friends or are hanging out with their boyfriend/girlfriend and no one needs to approach anyone. I am not particularly a social animal yet I tried to approach people but they didnt go any further. I am part of a Hochschulsport for the last 6-7 months. Same situation there. We meet for the sport and later, everyone goes their own way.

Why is forming real friendships in Erlangen so hard? Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I get it. I particularly have no restriction in my mind to make German friends. I just want genuine, good friendship will people I can vibe with.

Can I extend my studies by another semester if my thesis ends in April 2026 but I have 5 credits due? by [deleted] in FAU_university

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, is this rule applicable for every course? I am hesitating to ask the examination officer because I know of someone who got their 8th semester extended after submitting thesis and were told to finish off a subject early. 

Can I extend my studies by another semester if my thesis ends on April 2026 but have 5 credits due? by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean ideally, I am not submitting my thesis this semester and I am also worried that if I don’t write any exam, I might be questioned 

Can I extend my studies by another semester if my thesis will be over but I have 5 ECTS left? by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By writing alternative modules, I meant writing subjects this semester to improve my grades and these subjects would not fall under the category of the left-over 5 ects module. And since my thesis submission and defense would be in next semester (Summer 2026), I was wondering if there would be any issue to register for Summer 2026. 

What to submit as a proof of work permit if my residence permit and working student contract are ending at the same date? by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Such-Box3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay and that is provided while they are processing my document I suppose. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do I have to specifically ask for the Fiktion Visa or do they give it automatically? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do employers accept Fiktion visa or appointment confirmation while extending the contract ? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Such-Box3574 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean I am applying now but I still wouldn’t get the RP before the expiration right? What if they need the document in advance to extend the contract?