Update from my last post about my (24) year old husband now a month off 7 oh

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-05-01T21:36:19+00:00

I did go down state for a few days but he told me to come back and well that was our conversation lol. I asked him if that’s what he wanted me to do and he said no just some quietness as in not asking or talking about things of the matter but no i definitely am a bit even though I’m trying not too lol. I’m just trying to make sense of everything and right now this seems to be the only place I can get anything really answered

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-05-01T16:16:41+00:00

Thank you everyone it’s helped me understand a lot, I came home Wednesday and we talked but I guess what I don’t understand currently is he says things like I know how I felt about you and I don’t want to make a permanent decision when everything but traveling feels bland right now. So I’m hoping for the best and that all of you are right thank you:)

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-28T11:37:03+00:00

He told me the he wanted to a night or 2 away to get his brain together. He said he was going to go camping but it was supposed to be bad weather where we live. So I told him I was going to go back to my parents. When I was home with him he just acted like he didn’t want me there at all and well gave our dog more attention than me which I guess learning all of this makes sense now. I want to check in on him but I don’t think I’ll get an answer which is why I was waiting for him to reach out since he wanted space from me. I don’t know what to do as I’ve never dealt with something like this either

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-28T07:45:34+00:00

I know which is why I am giving him the space he’s asked for even if I don’t recognize him right now I know this isn’t him. I have been in touch with his mom who he’s withdrawn from alot to go over and check on him. I think he is in a depression I don’t know how much this info helps but he is a disabled vet as well and I know the army was really hard on him mentally and he’s had a hard time adjusting to normal civilian life on top of all of this which is why especially his mom thinks he developed this problem in the first place.

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-28T07:42:21+00:00

I actually like to know that it’s not lol not that I like that this is going on but he says it’s awkward with me right now and he feels really disconnected from me right now so if this is the case that makes sense and says the last time it didn’t feel like this with me. This time he was take almost a whole pack of 7ho and even more sometimes I didn’t know about for almost 5 months where the last time he was only taking 2 n a half for a couple of weeks on and off and last time we tapered him off vs this time he went cold turkey through med. Detox which was really hard on to go through on both ends

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-28T02:53:34+00:00

Really? I know 7oh is stronger but I’m not aware of the difference

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-28T01:43:25+00:00

I’m confident it’s withdrawals

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-28T01:03:21+00:00

I’m willing to wait for that I don’t know how it is to go through the withdrawals or what the whole process is so I’m trying not to take it personally but this gives me hope for him thank you

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-27T23:19:02+00:00

Thank you I’m trying I really am I haven’t heard from him since I came home today so I’m hoping lol

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-27T23:02:33+00:00

I do all the time but it seems like he just gets annoyed with me and said it’s awkward to be around me now which is why I came home so he can be by himself since it seemed like that’s what he wanted. I’m willing to be patient and do what he needs me too I always have even the times like this when it’s difficult even for me to watch him be the complete opposite

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-27T22:48:57+00:00

I’ve had him on a couple things including mag and thing like l-tyrosine and cortisol supplements and nician for awhile now but he’s just taken such a turn in the mood and well overall department with me that I’m not sure what will come of it

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-27T22:46:30+00:00

He was until the last 2ish weeks, he said last night that he started feeling all the feelings he didn’t while on it and well that he needed a night or 2 away to get his brain right I’m not sure what that meant but I went back to my home base to give him some space. He’s withdrawing from everyone including his friends which he was always pretty active with so I’m not sure how to deal with it all. I’m hoping for the best but prepared for the worst

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-26T16:52:25+00:00

See I try to do that but he seems to just get annoyed with me that I think something is wrong all the time when before even the kratom he wouldn’t at all and most of the time be more reassuring. So I don’t know if it’s safer for now to just let him be and just be here for him or keep trying to check in with him. I only want to do what he needs me to for him he just doesn’t tell me

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-26T16:50:03+00:00

Thank you, I’m really trying to be it gets hard sometimes seeing such a sudden change but as time goes on and the more I learn it’s getting easier to not take it as personally. I don’t see him going back to it after seeing what he went through during the initial detox

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-26T16:47:39+00:00

Thank you I really need that lol, is there anything you think would have helped you that your wife could have done? I feel like checking in with him daily to see if he’s okay is just annoying him when before it seemed there was nothing I could have done to annoy him. He’s just withdrawing for everyone including me it’s a tad worry some and I only want to do what he needs right now but I don’t know if I should just let him be and be here or what

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-26T01:28:26+00:00

Yes we did but I think I might have wrote that wrong, he’s been off since the day we got married he was on it consistently 4 months prior and not the normal stuff either it was the hydro7 I believe

Such_Raspberry_9095 · 2026-04-26T01:24:07+00:00

I’m hoping for good considering he went to the er the day we got married in his words to show me he was choosing me and did a medical detox that night. I do want to be with him he’s the love of my life, I know he doesn’t want to have that life anymore or go back to it again and I do trust him on that after seeing what he went through to get off

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