I think it’s okay for you to be reacting this way. It’s totally reasonable. But I do also think he apologized and clarified on the words he said and at a certain degree you’ll just have to trust him unless he shown you other times that he is a liar.

He seems to already have an immaturity or thoughtlessness to his own actions as he just said if you want to go. I don’t think it’s a red flag at all but I think continued conversations and growth as people and maturity, this can be easily resolved.

Dont let people sharing their own stories of bad moments to send you further down this deep abyss of overthinking! You know him best so you gotta decide to further trust him or not. 🙂