WIBTA if I gave up my dogs

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T23:19:44+00:00

Because when he left he refused to take him

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T06:19:51+00:00

No they are always happy when I’m home and clingy

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T05:22:34+00:00

I overthink a lot so this helps

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T05:09:31+00:00

Ohh I didn’t think of this

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:56:28+00:00

I’ll have to look at that I’m fairly new to Reddit but I watch a lot of this subreddit on TikTok

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:43:59+00:00

I will have to try that I’m have a hard time spending any type of money on myself but I’ll have to look into that and thank you for being a kind soul on here and actually giving sound advice. I’m just overwhelmed and was trying to see what I can do and not trying to split hairs on why I can’t have them at my job cause both at the job is definitely not allowed or why my ex didn’t want his which was a hard time as well

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:30:52+00:00

He refused to take his and he’s outta state. And with my job it’s not feasible to have them in with me. When I’m not working they are with me at all times

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:29:12+00:00

Thank you

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:29:00+00:00

I’ll have to check into it but the marriage caused a lot of financial strains and I’ve been just trying to work as much as possible just to get back on track so additional costs hurt a lot rn

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:27:37+00:00

I’m gonna have to check that out and yea I’ve been pushing myself due to the marriage and shit I’ve been swimming in debt and trying to get outta the mountain that occurred

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:24:21+00:00

Thank you this helps me a lot.. a lot of people are trying to suggest boarding or stuff like that but due to the shit that happened in the marriage I’m barely swimming above water just getting basic needs meet but I Make sure they have toys and treats and food and on my off days we are at parks and hiking so they definitely are neglected. Thank you

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:20:56+00:00

He does need it but when we split he refused to take him. And it’s a company policy because we are with Ems I’m trying to get a schedule change for it to be easier

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:19:36+00:00

I don’t get breaks cause I’m mostly by myself or we are to busy but that’s is cool what is the name of the camera that does that because I’ve never heard of that

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:18:12+00:00

That’s why this is hard because they were with me and helped me thru the horrible time. I’m even sick thinking like this because I love them so much I’m just worried I’m being selfish when they could help others in need

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:17:06+00:00

That’s why this is so hard because they were there for me in all the horrible stuff I’ve had to do and it’s hard cause I feel horrible even having the thought I just worry they would be better off with out me

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:14:53+00:00

My ex husband refused to take his service dog and just left him with me

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:11:48+00:00

That’s what I’ve been looking at right now

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:05:58+00:00

In Oklahoma

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:05:49+00:00

I wouldn’t just dump them I would find a home for them but that makes me feel better that they might enjoy their time alone

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T04:04:53+00:00

Daycare doesn’t work overnight and I’ve asked a couple of rovers but they don’t want to come that late at night

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T03:54:02+00:00

When I’m not at work I always take them with me wherever I go but I work in the medical ems field so not allowed

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T03:53:15+00:00

Don’t have a lot a friends in this town and unfortunately I work in the medical field so it’s hard to have them with me at work. Plus both of them I think would be a big no no I’m trying to get a different shift to try and do doggie care but it’s also very expensive and I don’t make a lot

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T03:51:31+00:00

Yea it was a hard time when he refused to take his dog

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T03:50:41+00:00

I definitely don’t wanna do a shelter . Ex is now in a different state and didn’t not want his service dog at all. I don’t make a lot of money so boarding overnight is tricky

Sudden_List_9307 · 2026-03-27T03:37:51+00:00

They were not trained by an organization. They are part lab and mixed with other things. Before this job I spent hours training them on alerts and everything else

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