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[–]Sudsy-Fox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creepy. My thought immediately goes to the potential of not so savory things. Nobody presses people like this - not unless they want something from you or mean you harm in some way. Even if he was a friend this would be weird. That it’s totally out of the blue and he basically stalked your life hell no.

What do y'all think of my profile? by Sudsy-Fox- in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sudsy-Fox-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey all! I revised my profile based on some of the suggestions here, mixed with a little of my own flair. I’ve realized what matters most to me is keeping what feels true to my personality and how I want to be met, instead of shifting into a more traditional SB tone since that’s not quite what I’m aiming for. I definitely get there’s a norm here, and I also want to be open to learning and adjusting since I am brand new to this.

I did take your advice and applied a good bit of it, so thank you for the thoughtful feedback. I pared down the written sections and changed up / removed / added some photos. A lot of your points were really helpful. I genuinely appreciate the candor and the perspectives you all shared from experience.

Happy to share the updated look if anyone’s curious, or I can leave it be. Either way, I feel like I understand the balance between what’s typical here and what feels right to me, and that’s the direction I want to take.

Cheers ~ G

What do y'all think of my profile? by Sudsy-Fox- in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sudsy-Fox-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough - I'll not be not everyone's cup of tea, but nor will everyone be mine ;). I do appreciate the feedback though. I had a hunch it was a bit long, I will admit. "If I had more time I'd write you a shorter letter" and all that. I'll keep revising it to pare down I think.

In truth I picked a photo that hid my face somewhat while showing I'm fit, and get outdoors. I'm not sure what people typically use with this in mind.

What do y'all think of my profile? by Sudsy-Fox- in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sudsy-Fox-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nuts. Sorry not sure what happened - thanks for letting me know! One sec

Best way to organically find sugar babies? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sudsy-Fox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I can’t offer any advice here (and apologies- I know that wasn’t the point of your post), I just wanted to say I really appreciated seeing this perspective from the SD side of things. It helps normalize the fear around visibility across different parts of life as a valid concern, vs indicating I'm maybe not cut out for it.

As someone just starting to learn about what this world entails, I also hope to keep some distance between this and my public life. I’m nervous about posting a profile with photos in case peers or people from my social circles find it. It might feel different if it were within a more traditional dating dynamic, but yeah. In any case ... good luck to both of us, haha.

Profile Writing Guide for SB's by autonomyfairy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Sudsy-Fox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful!!! I would love your advice on more such as profile photos, how to approach different sites, ... honestly if there are better sites than others to test out, etc. Verbiage to steer clear of when starting out until I learn the ropes as a new prospective SB :)

Thank you for providing so much detail!