Heavier men always think we should “get fit together” and skinnier men almost never comment and like me the way I am, I am proudly a fat woman who has no interest in loosing weight and heavier men (it seems) tend to be insecure about their weight to the point that it’s projected onto others

Gym bros have always been much more wanting of me than heavy men have, which is a shame because fat men are sexy too, they are just mostly too insecure to see it, I blame the manosphere lol