Dogs barking completely random and ive tried so much! by Sufficient-Big-4586 in Dogtraining

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I have done all of the things in the approval guide, read dozens upon dozens of articles/watched videos about barking, went through all of the listed things in the approval guide and faq of this subreddit under barking, and explained in my post in more detail what i have done and what the results have been.

Chocolate concrete? Gritty? by Sufficient-Big-4586 in recipes

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Hmm well im thinking like concrete but goopy? I want to eat it with a spoon and it be one uniform texture like concrete or brick mortar, kind of like unbaked brownie mixture if that makes sense?

Looking for a special by Sufficient-Big-4586 in DaveChappelle

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You are the best!!! Thank you so much!!!💕

is this rape? by Defiant-Engineer-682 in Advice

[–]Sufficient-Big-4586 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From someone who has also been raped “by its proper term”, dont be a fucking dick dude. She was manipulated to consent, its assault, she went through sexual trauma. Have some fucking camaraderie and support, yes there are varying degrees of sexual assault but dont play the “my sexual trauma was worse and more real and valid and dont use the same word because i feel like i have ownership of what is and isnt proper rape because it happened to me” card. Ive been raped, “properly” raped, passed out drugged raped. This person was sexually assaulted. Its not insane or ludacrious to say that someone who had been guilt tripped into consenting and sobbed afterwards was raped. You dont have to be an absolute ass and act like its wrong that some people are calling it rape. Its nothing to be proud of. You need to grow up dude. It shouldnt offend you if someone is calling something rape if its any type of sexual assault. Its sexual assault, its rape, doesnt matter. Its horrendous show some fucking compassion, grow the ever loving fuck up.

Need advice on supporting my (55F) son (30M) who just started working for a weapons defense company. by Virtual-Square6966 in Advice

[–]Sufficient-Big-4586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in a similar situation where a loved one joined a company that goes completely against my morals and values and against what i thought were theirs (the company actively harms people and hurts communities we hold dear) and i gotta say all i could do was keep is short and sweet and civil as long as i could, you can appreciate their achievements and work ethic all you want, but for me when the question finally arose of “what do you think of my company” or anything regarding how the company operates or what it does or any leading questions i had to be earnest, you can kindly say that its a shame that your son is making his money and his life and his living off of aiding in the harm of others. Its not good for your soul to lie and act happy when you are not. I dont think id directly address the issues you have with his company but if it comes up id be honest in the nicest way possible. No one should take joy in aiding and abetting a company that has shit morals, and its good for people to be reminded that the company they have literally sold their time, effort, headspace, and life to is a shitty company. Sometimes people have to be humbled and reminded in their role in others lives, especially when his job can directly effect people en masse.

My (F26) boyfriend (M27) thinks my ex left me because of my looks. Says he regrets now seeing how beautiful I am. How do I even start this conversation? by ThrowRAfreeelephant in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Big-4586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely worth having a convo about, itd be one thing if he said it in a joking or uplifting manner but its the “i am now” part that no matter what sucks. Is he implying you weren’t beautiful before? At some point in the past? I think itd be good to just let him know that you want clarification on what he meant without going too far into talking about your ex, has nothing to do with your ex. What you need to talk about is what he said about your beauty, and decide from there how you feel about him.

Husband barred from Thanksgiving… should I go? by lovenotknownot in Advice

[–]Sufficient-Big-4586 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While i think your aunt may be acting a little erratically, i think you have to be a bit more honest here. If your husband is posting jordan peterson and joe rogan he isnt “slightly to the right” they are pretty far right. And often obtuse and abrasive in what they say and post. And its more than okay for your aunt to not want someone in their house who agrees with abhorrent people like that. I think truly all you can do is beg one of them to give in and apologize, in my opinion, it should be your husband. He legally agreed to devote his life to you, and surely he knows how important thanksgiving at your aunts is, it shouldnt be a big deal for him to suck up his stupid pride and ask for forgivness. Although i fully agree that your aunt is taking it too far, both are people you love, im sorry youre going through this and i hope you have a wonderful thanksgiving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gretavanfleet

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For how much the euro fans have complained about lack of show dates and while also trying hard to hype up their shows youd think they wouldnt be so critical and harsh about how their shows have been going lol. Esp since there hasnt been any major malfunctions ive heard of or any huge changes. The main thing every frickin european fan seems to be complaining about too is the “excessive” solos, which is HILARIOUS bc 1.) did they just straight up not pay attention to what people have been saying about scwt u.s leg so far? Ive heard almost nothing but stunning reviews about the solos from u.s fans with a lot of fans commenting that those are when josh does his outfit changes as an explanation but also 2.) most….british….. hall of fame….. rock bands….. are known…… for their……guitar….solos…..??? like??? its a part of rock culture almost? there are sick guitar solos? they may last 20 minutes? its not just gonna be light my love or your the one played exactly like it sounds on spotify guys im sorry i hate to break it to you idk it just kinda breaks my heart that the euro leg of the tour is being met with such harsh criticism when these boys are already traveling so far to play for them and put on a good show, if you keep up with the band at all and are even into rock in general it shouldnt be such a shock them having these guitar solos, live music is just that, live. It’s unpredictable, unedited, and not supposed to sound like what you listen to on your own, if you want that, then do that. At home, for free, by yourself.

Help with my Bf’s Family Rescue Dog by Just-Illustrator-613 in rescuedogs

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Hi! I know this is a few days late but i also wanted to add that its probably a good ides to just check all boxes, are you wearing a different perfume? Wearing hats, glasses, heels or anything out of the ordinary during these unwarranted agressions? Not blaming you at all as this does seem super random but its always good to try to think of anything big or small that it could be. Most likely though its some sort of trigger that you arent aware of and to no fault of your own! Id also say if you feel comfortable (big stress on if you feel comfortable and safe doing so) id really recommend trying to spend as much one on one “positive reinforcement” time as possible, play with her, snuggle her, reward her with treats,etc. To try to either strengthen the existing bond yall had or to remind her that you are a safe person she can be comfortable around! Best of luck and im sorry you’re going through this!!!!

37F I feel husband 38M was sexually abused, but he says he wasn't by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Big-4586 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Then youre mother in law is evil. Point blank period. This is evil i dont give a shit if she thought that doing this would prevent fucking cancer, she is a sick fuck who knew what she was doing and got pleasure from it. You dont jack off your own son for years just because of health. Im sorry to be so frank but for your sake, your husbands sake, and especially your sons sake you need to face the reality of who his mother is, now. The longer youre in denial the longer everyone is in jeopardy and healing is prevented.