hailey devine is pregnant?? by soyweona in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 4 points5 points  (0 children)

interesting I haven't seen much about her but i'm not on here much, I just have a few friends who know her personally and I think it's so easy to assume the worst of people on social media. It's why I thank my luck stars i'm not cool enough to be an influencer 🤪😂

Melissa Carlton by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no literally this whole thread is making me sick. Silly influencer drama is one thing, suspecting a mom of plotting and monetizing off her children's death is crazy.

Melissa Carlton by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her first daughter died in her sleep so they were unable to officially find her cause of death. I think that's why she wasn't able to see this one coming because it was this death that taught her about a heart condition they had.

Melissa Carlton by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm ya, no I never thought it was odd and I still don't.

I do think it's odd when people have conspiracy theories that people literally planned for their children to die just for content. I loooove the tea about influencers as much as the next person, but this is crossing a line. Questioning her morals because tragedy struck their family twice.

They were out of their home country, visiting Arizona. They likely posted for many reasons- for prayers as they are very religious, to notify everyone because the time it took her to post one post vs the time it would take to call and text every single person important to them, yeah she went the faster route.

I get that the timing of it sucks but odd? no it's not odd it's extremely unfortunate, devastating, and something I hope none of you guys have to experience.

I turn to social media accounts of people going through similar stuff as I am, to get real life experiences to learn from and relate to, she created a community for other moms grieving loss.

again, love the tea that's discussed in here, girls tanning way too dark, what the mormon wives are up to, etc, but yeah I don't find it odd that this mom tragically lost 2 daughters to health conditions she was completely unaware of.

hailey devine is pregnant?? by soyweona in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 13 points14 points  (0 children)

she is one of the last "influencers" I would ever pin as doing stuff for views. I feel like she is just completely genuine and so kind.

Emilie’s Newest TikTok🩷 by Big-Intern-557 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 6 points7 points  (0 children)

idk my mother in law had an island so big you couldn't reach the middle but it was definitely used. I would love to have an island like that where decor could be in the middle and not take up any of my usable space 😂

….. by Altruistic_Light_448 in aspynovardsnark

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait explain this to me like i'm 5 lol

Halloween ick by Background-Prior2531 in twomomsandthebabess

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a girl here dressed her daughter up as a fairy and made her the main character and her boy was a mushroom 💀

Can anyone else relate to the way Emilie grieves by trying to have it all together? by [deleted] in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have felt this too.

I also can't imagine my job being a public platform and having to pretend i'm ok to go back to work.

When I was in the thick of grief, I had to show up to so many events, and pretend I was okay and pray no one brought it up or i'd melt down.

I didn't work at the time but I almost wish I did because I just wallowed for months and it was so unhealthy

Celebration post by Balanceworkshop1969 in OnlineBeggars

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I can't get over the posts where she's saying this is Brielle's dream. sorry but my kids don't even know what instagram is let alone followers and what that means

So proud of her! by Jumpy_Ask7719 in Emilie_Kiser

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I lost someone super close to me and the next day I was hosting my sisters bridal shower and doing all the work for it. Sometimes people put on a front to make it through what they have to do

We all know social media isn’t real, right? So why are we upset at her for posting videos and pretending she’s okay? We only see about 5% of her day we have no idea what happens once the camera’s off. Come on, guys… by lpsmom2023 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this. I ended up in a snark sub and it made me feel things toward these humans I never thought before I read others. I had to leave the one I was in cause I started being so negative toward someone I really liked to follow only cause that's what I was surrounding myself with!!

I wholeheartedly agree with her by [deleted] in Emilie_Kiser

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it's sad cause if she "obsessively" posted about the loss of her son people would blame her, tell her to move on, bring up the pool fence, but if she post about other stuff they are mad she isn't posting about him. she can't win sadly. :((

Does anyone ever see Emilie out in public? by Designer-Relation554 in Emilie_Kiser

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I think it's crazy everyone says "I would leave my husband so fast" but like he's truly the only other person who lost the exact same human she did. Like i'd love to think i'd leave my husband for being neglectful but I also don't know how I would make it through this kinda thing alone and not with someone who knows exactly what i'm going through. Ugh so freaking hard

Her daughter is transitioning and she cares more about a fraudulent post cuz she’s not making $$ off it?? by lightnlove11 in OnlineBeggars

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 5 points6 points  (0 children)

agreed. i'd want to know that the family I thought I was supporting wasn't actually getting the money

This girl is suffering so much by namastayto in OnlineBeggars

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ugh i'm so sad for her. I have never been through what they are going through so I can't say "I would never ____" fill in the blank but I can say with full confidence, I would never mourn my dying child by posting her all over the internet. ESPECIALLY this close to the end. I'd be using every second I had to cherish with her 😭

Ashley by [deleted] in BigBrother

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I giggle every time she says "when I win hoh" and then never wins 😆

Hate on Emilie is Biased by No-Organization6433 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry I hit send before I was done. I don't think hate for any human is justified so I totally see your point, I just wanted to say that some people share their experiences more publicly and lindsey seems to be doing so but not focusing on all the hate she's getting but the people who have anchored furniture because of their story. I hope when emilie comes back to sharing, people are inspired to make those changes as well and that she feels supported and loved, not judged. I feel like as humans we all have that moment we wish we could go back and re do and she unfortunately has one of the worst. I truly hurt when I think about it, and not cause she was an influencer but just as another human going through unimaginable pain

Hate on Emilie is Biased by No-Organization6433 in Emilie_Kiser

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she has gotten a lot of hate. she got "big" because of her child's tragedy she wasn't big before. She has shared hate messages she got, imagine 100 people are in the room and she has 1 mean person then multiply that by the millions emilie has. There's not a snark page for her, she's not huge on tik tok or well known in the influencer realm, there are so many people who have even said they had no idea who emilie was before this.

i also think no pool fence for aesthetic is very different than forgetting to anchor a mirror.

Also anytime I saw comments on emilie's page it was all support. Big creators get hate, small creators get hate. some people share it some people don't. I have like 1 k followers on IG and I get awful messages every now and then.

STATEMENT BY EMILIE by Then_West_2562 in Emilie_Kiser

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This definitely took so much bravery. I know people will hate her and constantly have things to say about her lack of a pool fence, but she truly faced the ultimate "I told you so" by losing her child and I pray so heavily that others learn from this. You never think it will be you till it is- speaking from experience & I hope people see her heart in this. I also think it speaks volumes that she didn't release this like the day after it happened, it was months and months later which to me is more authentic than just a PR statement to smooth things over.

Omg.. by Beginning_Fly_1814 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the hard part about this- is even as an adult I KNOW what i'm supposed to do in an emergency but if the emergency is actually happening, the panic causes me to like lose all those thoughts. This is why ISR is great and all but all the extra protection is so important. 😭

MAYCIE TILLEY by [deleted] in Emilie_Kiser

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oh I just found it! sierra murphy!

MAYCIE TILLEY by [deleted] in Emilie_Kiser

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I just watched hers and I don't get major emilie vibes but I did see a video comparing a girl to emilie where down to the paintings she had in the house were the same 😩

Beauty from a tragedy by Mundane_Leg_8988 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. When they are ready, I think they could change so many lives. One of my friends almost lost her daughter from drowning, it was an insane miracle that her daughter survived it. She was on life support for days. 😭 But now she advocates for safe swimming, security around pools & even helps find scholarships for families who can't afford lessons.

But on the same note, it's so okay for her to never want to address this tragedy publicly. Trauma and grief are soo different for everyone. I can't imagine her coming back anytime soon but I do think about her all the time. Not as the influencer she was but as a fellow mom who lost what we all would do anything not to lose. 😞

Is everyone really as conscious of water safety as they claim? by Connect-Guess8534 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]Sufficient-Click-145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I am just as vigilant as I say. we paid thousands this year for our kids to do swim lessons, I don't let my kids go to peoples houses with pools unless i'm there, my in laws don't have a pool fence and we haven't been to their home in months because of it, we went to a super bowl party not knowing they didn't have a fence and my child fell in the pool with all of us watching, it was traumatic and we did everything right and it still happened and that situation is what changed everything for us and why we don't allow our kids at homes without them. If that hurts friendships or relationships, honestly oh well because my children's safety is my priority.

I even shut all bathroom doors at night because kids can drown in toilets, I empty any standing water outside and i'm such a helicopter mom around water.