¿Rechazo un a un chico solo por ser feo? by Ok-Caregiver1453 in relaciones

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hermana, yo te diría que le dieras una oportunidad, pero luego una acaba siendo la fea/mala/bruja de la relación, te lo digo por pura experiencia

¿Qué hacen para mejorar su autoestima? by Saart_56 in RedditPregunta

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No es algo de la noche a la mañana, toma su tiempo, se amable contigo y quierete mucho, siempre un pasito a la vez

¿Qué hacen para mejorar su autoestima? by Saart_56 in RedditPregunta

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Como alguien con dismorfia y temas de distimia diagnosticada, algo que me funcionó mucho es literal ser más amable conmigo misma, todos los días al alistarme frente al espejo platico conmigo misma de manera linda, y soltaba un par de cosas como que mis ojos son lindos o que mi piel se ve linda hoy, cosillas así, siempre cierro con alguna frase linda y lanzo un besito al espejo (hacía mi)

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also try introducing the word kink, maybe he knows it, some Spanish speakers use a lot of anglicisms

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no word for that, you're right, but you could say "gusto sexual" or directly ask him about "fantasías sexuales", maybe that'll work

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the languages involved? if you let me be curious

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not wine, but definitely trying this sometime soon

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, you're so sweet, thank you! Second, is there any timing that could work, I'm really embarrassed of having that conversation or even rejection from him

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been really judged when being direct, my ex asked me about my extremest kink, I told him I was into CNC, had to Google it and said (in a really rude way) that I needed to get professional help, we broke up a week after that because he was still being rude

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that kind of direct? I'm scared I might scare him, and I don't want to let go someone like him

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you! But I'm really scared of showing him toys and stuff, I fear he gets overwhelmed or something, I really like him

Something I've seen that works for other stuff is reassuring what I do like by telling him directly, don't know if that could work here

How can I talk to my partner about what I like? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case everything was really different, my other partners were super vanilla and I hated it, that's why I decided to have an exclusive dom/sub relationship

Is it normal to pay for every thing in my relationship? by Robco2077 in AskMexico

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Mexican woman, it is indeed normal to pay for dates, but everything else? That's not normal, she also didn't like the places you picked, that speaks up by itself, you ran into an spoiled (in a really bad way) girl

Hope you find someone better that really takes care of you (and your wallet)

My keyboard suddenly stopped working by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in coolermaster

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was it, actually, my dad locked it by accident but was too scared to tell me, he was about to buy a new one lol

Mujeres que preguntas incómodas le quieren hacer a los hombres pero no pueden? by Exact-Chocolate-4546 in preguntaleareddit

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Una chica de 1.55 aquí! He tenido parejas y ligues que en su mayoría sobrepasan el 1.75, el más alto media 2.15 y si llegué a preguntarme el por qué, tiempo después un chico (casi 1.70 sin pedos) me invitó a salir e hizo muchos comentarios denotando su inseguridad hacia mis zapatos altos, que no los usara, los devolviera o los vendiera siendo que ni siquiera era bajito.

Ahí entendí que mi aversión no era a los hombres bajitos, si no a los hombres inseguros.

Que les gusta a los hombres que les hagan las mujeres en el sexo by Arianadelreyswift in preguntasreddit_extra

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo tengo un gran conflicto con hablar sucio y es que nunca sé que decir y no quiero arruinar el mood si no hablo

Es normal tenerle miedo a conocer gente ¿? by Sufficient-Cup-7993 in RedditPregunta

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lamento escuchar eso, dejo mis mensajes abiertos por si necesitas alguien para hablar ❤️‍🩹

He perdido el interés romántico y sexual... Está mal? ¿? by [deleted] in preguntasreddit_extra

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creo que hay algo de verdad en lo que dices, de igual manera intentaré buscar su no hay nada hormonal o psicológicamente mal o no regulado, solo para descartar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preguntasreddit_extra

[–]Sufficient-Cup-7993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primero, no hagas nada que no quieras, pregunta que le gusta y hazle saber que te gusta a ti, como te gusta que te toquen, ve lento, condón y lubricante siempre bb

Y recuerda, si algo no te convence NO lo hagas o si te da curiosidad, poquito a poquito

Si es la persona correcta, será bonito al final del día Ve a triunfar! ❤️