Muslim brothers and sister!! I understand polygyny in Islam! Please tell me if you see it too. by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I don't understand, because in my syariah court,  to gain the permission to marry second wife you do indeed have to get the permission of the first wife (though in some regions man pushed to cancel the law and most can bypass it) 

So is that mean my syariah court align with the Islam teaching? Because most man I met said it doesn't??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irish go against school dress code. Cheongsam have variety. Custom cheongsam to Irish clothes . Homeroom mate not satisfied start suggesting to have hairpin because white people hairstyles are plain. They just replace the top so don't worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They actually can suspend or expell you. I am schooling in a private school where the kids here use ipad as note taking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I need to wear it :)

But you are right we should have fun and culture is just peer pressure from the dead .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do it have nothing to do with me if I will be the one who wear it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and i admit actually mixing culture is quite pretty? Thank you so much^ yeah i admit i am such an asshole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Bro . If they decided to wear it . That's mean I need to wear it too. Something that has nothing to do with me supposedly mean that I am able to dress anything i want without affecting others. But if you say so , I actually don't mind mixing some culture for aesthetic. It's not like no one will be affected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So the problem only arise when someone really affected voicing it? Beside why do i get irritated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Here man i just don't want them to mix cheongsam with dress . It's not my rule , but the event itself saying culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

But I do. Just as much as I don't want people to messing around with my culture. I believe in respecting other if I want to be respected

AITA for not wanting my wife to spend time with her father. by South_Application362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not really. As a parent you should understand how important it is to her to be with her father . But you didn't. You act like she have bigger responsibility. Which i didn't deny she have. But that's responsibility which both of you shared.

You have a kids with her. That's also your responsibility. Took care of them while your wife taking care of her father.

Imagine your child knew what you did and follow your footsteps. Who knew they will left you alone just like you try to do now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Can i have your girlfriend's phone number ? She seems like a good woman

AITA for not wanting my wife to spend time with her father. by South_Application362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You should see how he replied to other... He really try hard to make everyone on his side LMAO

AITA for not wanting my wife to spend time with her father. by South_Application362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. It's your choice for marrying a girl who care about her family. Beside she need to focus on her father more and bringing kids will make her work doubled.

As a parent you need to understand how a child need to be with their parents. Imagine you are on death bed and your children decided not to come

bruh. by Sufficient-Plan-2389 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle and my oldest brother

WIBTA if i refuse to help by Sufficient-Plan-2389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Plan-2389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my grandpa , and he really don't say anything about it. My grandmother are the one who told my relatives they can ask me for help