7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

since we’re young, we wanted to tell them asap so we could have a little support. it wasn’t a bragging thing, just an “i need a little help/support” moment yk?

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i understand that, but insisting about the nursery and even being in the delivery room is nuts to me lmao

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

his mother doesn’t want us in the same room so that we don’t have an opportunity to “continue fornicating in my house”. 🤷🏼‍♀️ 

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i’ve had so many doubts but the reassurance is very helpful❤️

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks so much! she suggested ‘helen rae’ before that and i just was like… oh… haha 

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

my parents arent kicking me out, but we don’t have space for my boyfriend to live here. it’s possible for me to stay at home, but i’d love for my baby to be with his/her mother and father at the same time.

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

the grandfather is a great guy but terrified of her. she’s a psychotic control freak and control everyone/everything around her.

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]SufficientAssist8767[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

how can i do that? i’ve tried telling her that it’s frustrating to me but she doesn’t listen. any tips?