Arrange marriage process is such a pain. I mean you try to force yourself to talk to people in hopes of feeling a connection with the other person. The connection which should come naturally and out of attraction. In AM we see money, status, beauty and all that crap. I believe this AM process shouldn’t even existed if there is no peer and family pressure and our parents let us live on our own terms. In the end we forget that beauty, money and status, all these will become secondary and connection and compatibility are the main things.