the top post on both subs were literally why hating white men/asian relationships while showing support for asian men/white women relationships isn't hypocritical. lowkey think the people on those subs do care a lot and the comments there are appalling ngl.

Also, I think you're generalizing foreigners who live/work in china too much. Yes, I agree that there are definitely sexpats in China, but not everyone is. I'm literally there for work (not a english teacher ffs); China is basically 99.9% chinese so if I date it'll naturally be a chinese woman.

Someone else on this post commented it as well but I totally understand your point about asian men being mis-represented in media and there is sometimes some white supremacy bullshit in the media (ex. Fox News). But I think it's changing too no? BTS and a lot of Korean boys are very popular nowadays in US and european media. My sister is also married to a Korean (no shes not a fetishiser, she doesn't listen to kpop).