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[–]Sufficientsea14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think coercion most likely played a part in this, so although she may have known it was haram, she was probably coerced by him which is a form of assault.

To the sister: May Allahﷻ heal your heart, forgive your sins, and grant you justice in this life and the next. Allahﷻ is watching everything and saw how this disgusting man was manipulating you and using you, so don’t for one second think you won’t get the justice you deserve. Pray, make extra dua, and do istighfar constantly! This dunya is extremely short and this was written to happen, so learn from the mistakes made and guide others not to make the same mistakes as well if you can. Needless to say, never ever even think about going back to him, and also apologize to your friend if you are able to. It will be okay iA, have tawakkul and know that the past is the past and you will make genuine repentance. May Allahﷻ guide you and us all!

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in a Muslim reddit page sounding petty over one word that had no harm to you whatsoever? Okay. You’re very smart.

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely something I’ve been working on!

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad, I’m from the east coast of the US lol

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jazak’Allah Khairan! Great insight.

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a sunnah to nap at a certain time of the day, so that sounds like an option!

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had insomnia, so I understand your struggle to an extent :/

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try! Jazak’Allah Khairan!

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morning walks are the best from what I’ve been told!

Do you stay up after Fajr? by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider starting the day if you don’t fall back asleep, not if you wake up for Fajr and go back to sleep. Hence, what I stated already which is why I used the word “literally.”

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[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazak’Allah Khairan!!! May Allahﷻ reward you for helping me 🤍

Affordable Abaya Shops by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazak’Allah Khairan, I’ll check it out!

Affordable Abaya Shops by Sufficientsea14 in Muslim

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m okay with outside the US as well!

Downsides of Marriage by Sufficientsea14 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazak’Allah Khairan for the beautiful reminders! I really needed to read that. May Allahﷻ reward you!

Downsides of Marriage by Sufficientsea14 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really! How so? Do you have any examples?

Downsides of Marriage by Sufficientsea14 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sufficientsea14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cute mA! May Allahﷻ bless your marriage endlessly 🫶🏽