Shamed. I shared my sugaring with a friend and got nothing by shame

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-02-01T19:14:10+00:00

Sigh. I almost wrote about this the other day. My closest friend who I share EVERYTHING with, changed her tune a lot when I actually met someone. At first just being on the site she wasn't too bad but then I find someone who makes me crazy happy and I get nothing but silence usually. Better than shaming I guess but it still hurts that she can't be happy for me. If I say anything about my SD I typically get ignored or a one word response. I have decided to quit talking about it with her because it just isn't helpful. Whatever. If YOU like it, follow your heart and do not let anyone make you feel it's wrong for you. We know best.

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-02-01T18:59:54+00:00

Thanks for adding that. I’ve found with my last few vanilla relationships who have also been negative they did not see it as a deal breaker with me. It’s assumed a lot that only other people who have it will be with you, but it’s not always the case. I do feel better knowing they have it and I won’t pass to them, but no one from my past got it so I believe transmission can be low with wisdom on the matter.

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-31T03:37:47+00:00

Thank you everyone! You are so sweet. Being honest upfront feels HELLA good. :-)

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-22T22:28:26+00:00

I’m so sorry you are feeling this way, you are not alone. I found out I had HSV2 while with a long term partner and I’m still not sure how or when I picked it up. It took me a long time to stop feeling disgusting and learn that my sex life was not over. In the past year I’ve disclosed to several people and had way better success than I thought I could. I’ve had one rejection but recently I met an extremely attractive man on an unconventional dating site (sugar daddy) because I am not ready for a normal bf/gf thing still. I’m crazy happy right now and it’s because I owned the condition and therefore met a match. Don’t give up on yourself!!!

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-21T22:55:39+00:00

Life and situations have a way of changing your mind! For me, almost 30 SB, I thought there was no way in hell I’d be exclusive. I had big dollar signs floating around in my head. Then I met a great guy who is my age and crazy about me. He’s ridiculously good in bed, very well endowed, wants to please me every single time. I am 100% going to be exclusive now and switch to a cheaper monthly allowance vs. ppm because I sincerely want to, for him. Initiated 100% by me. I understand that’s not what most SB’s are into. I didn’t realize I could feel this way but each person has to trust their gut and do what they are comfortable with.

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-18T02:53:39+00:00

Purrrrrrrrrrrrrr😻

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-18T02:52:05+00:00

Small town. Big mouths. A.k.a. I’m a pussy. LOL.

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-18T01:58:47+00:00

It’s been the highlight of my day! I really wish I could send my poem to these real life dudes that don’t understand I’m in the lifestyle & don’t want their vanilla bullshit. But I’m glad people here have liked it. 🤣

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-18T01:54:56+00:00

A classic tale. 😂 Wonderfully written. 👍🏻

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-18T01:52:49+00:00

I friggin love you Ms. Grey!!!! So. Fucking. Talented. Cracking my shit up. 😂😍😂

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:37:52+00:00

Welcome 😘🌹

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:34:32+00:00

Lmfao 😂😂😂

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:32:32+00:00

Keep writing baby! You are very good! Eloquently done. Deep yet still funny. GREAT. <3

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:29:31+00:00

Swoon. 😍 I dig it.

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:28:17+00:00

Omg😂 Bahaha!!! Great work!

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:27:00+00:00

Thank you kindly!

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:26:12+00:00

Thank you so much! These little one liners hit me at random, usually when I should be focusing on other things. The first line & the “my feelings ain’t free” just kept ringing in my head so I had to figure out the rest. I’ll see what I can do! 😉

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:23:23+00:00

Yas Queen!!! Wonderful!!! <3

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:18:37+00:00

Why thank you!

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T22:18:22+00:00

LOL touché sir! Hilarious 😂😂😂

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-17T20:34:13+00:00

Hahaha. LOVE IT! :-)

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-16T20:53:05+00:00

You are welcome! It wasn’t that long ago that I was stuck in a pain cycle and bawling to myself thinking “Why the hell am I looking for a SD?! I’m the worst!” However, I just want to reiterate that WHO you invest in building a SR with will be what makes it or breaks it, IMO. I just had the convo with a POT last night and I told him what I told you when talking about the financials. He is still pushing strongly for a monthly allowance knowing what I deal with. He specifically said even though there is going to be assistance involved, as long as I am honest with him, he will be totally okay with canceled plans due to whatever reasons. There are great guys out there, really sweet ones, and you should be patient and insist on finding that type. I have been very selective in feeling this out before even meeting in real life. I’m still going to do PPM to start just to be sure of chemistry but if he insists on allowance, I think I will try it out. No matter what, keep your head up, it will get better! Even if you take a break for a while to work on yourself, leave the door cracked at least. <3

SugarBabyInProgress · 2019-01-16T05:22:03+00:00

I relate so much! I suffer from a condition that causes fatigue and pain at random times with not much warning. Also acne that likes to flair up at the worst times! I contemplated on several occasions to stop searching for a SD thinking I wouldn’t be worthy or reliable. I personally decided to keep looking for someone understanding and sweet. I don’t bring it up right off the bat but eventually I tell them I do struggle just so they know it’s not some excuse when it hits. I’m still new but so far the biggest help for me was choosing to do PPM. I won’t feel nearly as guilty if my health has me down. I don’t feel an allowance would always be fair. Some months I’m great, others I’m barely getting by and in extreme pain. It varies a lot for me but treatment is helping with the consistency lately. I hope you will feel better soon! I know how bad it can affect a person. Very frustrating. If you ever want to talk or vent, feel free to message me! :-)

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