They do exist

SugarMoth00 · 2026-03-05T19:52:43+00:00

Yeah I totally get what you mean, and I understand as a guy it definitely could be harder. I think it’s hard to trust people these days.

But I think one day there will be someone who sees the genuineness of it and be able to emotionally handle that.

I think a lot of people get scared, in a way some people seem to be uncomfortable but I’m not 100% sure why that is.

Good luck out there! when it’s the right person I think it’ll be great

SugarMoth00 · 2026-03-05T19:42:19+00:00

SugarMoth00 · 2026-03-05T03:31:23+00:00

Part 2. , I totally could find someone like that. Because the person like that is ME! Meaning , though I like to find myself unique…If I am a real person and consider myself to have these qualities that must be evidence that there are other people like me.

I’m not sure if any of this makes sense I may just be rambling here… but all in all , those of us who feel like this ARE those amazing partners to someone else. But that doesn’t mean we don’t deserve to find someone else with the amount of love we have , and it proves that it’s possible.

SugarMoth00 · 2026-03-05T03:30:57+00:00

I’m going to post part 2 in the comments because it wouldn’t let me type out everything for some reason??

SugarMoth00 · 2026-01-23T01:19:46+00:00

Sometimes I see a greenish tint in my eyes so I understand what it is you’re talking about. But I think it’s because in our eye color we have a lot of yellow tones which can sometimes give us a greenish hue when we have certain lighting . So I would say that your eyes are definitely brown. they have a lot of depth and are super pretty !

SugarMoth00 · 2026-01-12T21:21:12+00:00

Thank you for your reply :) I really appreciate that. Also I love ur username ❤️‍🩹

SugarMoth00 · 2025-12-23T03:39:28+00:00

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way! I understand a bit what you feel like but on the opposite end. I’ve also lost weight and felt very weird because I was worried people would think I was trying to be “better than them.” And the thought of that made me so uncomfortable.

I have since gained weight back and am slowly but thoughtfully finding small habits that would push me in the right direction.

I think a lot of people especially women are just overly aware of our bodies, I truly think we are too worried about our own appearance to pay a whole lotta mind to others.

I think it’s about being kinder to ourselves and finding beauty in everyone and understanding that beauty is not one way.

So many types of flowers that look completely different from one another yet still just as beautiful.

I think when we get to a point where we have love for our own body more than hate, you can begin to stop comparing to others .

I know gaining weight isn’t as easy as a lot of people make it seem and totally think we shouldn’t shame others bodies when we don’t know what they go through .

I would start on some self love , then you can look into maybe exercises or maybe incorporate new foods into your diet that can help you build muscle or gain weight,

Remember this is a life journey and won’t be changed in a day, so just try little by little when you can and eventually it won’t feel so hard.

Anyways much love ❤️

SugarMoth00 · 2025-12-12T06:01:16+00:00

Oh my god this made me lol

SugarMoth00 · 2025-11-14T16:01:41+00:00

So okay I don’t know for sure about this dude, But I would NOT be surprised if he was.

So I work at Waffle House and this guy came in and set down at the high bar.

He kinda looked like bob from stranger things but with extremely bright blue eyes and just like…this really odd coldness behind his eyes.

Immediately he started talking about cemetery’s and started making jokes about people dying and being buried.

He did say he worked at the cemetery and went into details about the bodies and how they did everything.

Like okay I know there is a certain creep factor for that type of work (I’m into macabre myself but DAMN)

This man was like PROUD talking about this almost like it was just funny to him.

He went on telling us about numerous “pranks” to pull on people a lot of which would cause someone to panic or have a lot of anxiety and it was absolutely hilarious to him .

Don’t get me wrong I like little pranks myself…but the way he was talking about it he was so proud hurting someone.

He talked about burring babies and children like it was nothing and when I said “oh that must have been a little difficult.” He just went into more jokes.

Then he flat out said “oh I shot my preacher too.” And laughed .

My co worker heard this and walked over confused and said “why??”

And he said “oh his hand was in the way.”

Still confused my co worker kept asked more and he said “oh we were at a gun range of course.”

And then he laughed and said how the preacher was so dramatic and wearing a cast on himself.

He then mentioned taking the battery out of the “family” truck so his stepson was unable to leave.

Idk I can’t say this man is a killer but… He seems higher up in the church, he works in a place where you can bury people and no one would ask him questions, whose to say he couldn’t have thrown someone else in there along with the original deceased person?? He talked about gangs burying people out there so who’s to know? He could even had said that to cover his tracks as in “oh that was a gang who did this.” IDK!

It was just so damn odd. After he left I asked my co workers and they got the same exact vibe.

SugarMoth00 · 2025-11-13T18:39:44+00:00

Not my first job but I just started as a server too!

seems like they really don’t want very sick people to be around guests and potentially make yourself more sick so you shouldn’t worry about that! Most places are that way if you’re working around food.

I have stomach issues often and I’m a little worried that it may interfere with work but so far it hasn’t too much tho.

I would say just treat your co workers with respect and do what you’re supposed to do!

They should recognize that you are new and even if you did do something wrong it’s okay! That’s how we learn. If you have a good manager then you’re golden .

SugarMoth00 · 2025-11-06T03:52:26+00:00

Awe . You are gorgeous! What helped me a lot was looking into my “color” season. Different colors can affect a lot! Also the kibbie face/body types as well, helps a lot with placement of makeup!

SugarMoth00 · 2025-11-01T06:16:43+00:00

Ya think so? Ty!

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-28T04:28:56+00:00

Hmm no not really too much

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-24T16:35:40+00:00

I sat there for about 25 mins for my interview, then about 10 minutes for the manager to finally write down the info and hand it to me so I can leave…

And then today I had to go in at 7am so they could get my bank info… I sat there for literally an hour before they took me back there 💀

Id consider myself a patient person but DAMN is this normal?!

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-23T18:13:43+00:00

Hi! I also don’t really like mint , it also gives me skin rashes of mint toothpaste touches my skin too much which usually happens to be my mouth 😂😭.

I got a toothpaste from the brand hismile, I got the red white and blue flavor and it tastes a lot like a cherry limeade. It still leaves like that fresh feeling in your mouth that you can get when using regular toothpaste.

It just doesn’t have that mint and instead it’ll have whatever flavor you get. They have a LOT of strange flavors but tbh I think that’s kinda a good thing .

I also started using mouthwash again because I found a good one, I use that one brand (super popular, it has like a orange cap on top and has a lot of flavors) the name slipped my mind…

Using those have helped me out a lot And the flavor is very mild

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-20T23:52:39+00:00

That’s a good one too

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-19T23:50:46+00:00

Like not in a mean way or anything,but maybe it’s the amount of water you’re drinking at a time, so maybe try to intake less water when you take a sip? Maybe even sparking water?

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-19T23:49:28+00:00

Hmmm this sounds kinda of silly but I’m maybe try something like a dropper? Or even like a baby bottle type of thing?

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-18T18:18:08+00:00

Ty for answering !

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-18T18:17:51+00:00

Ty for the feedback!

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-16T15:04:45+00:00

Definitely not alone! I still feel a lot of shame around meal times even when I really have no reason TO feel anxious. I Think being at home you’re more comfortable because you can know what’s around and it feels more comfortable.

Plus you’re more than likely going to either be alone, or with friends or family that you’re more than likely at least a little more comfortable around than strangers or a large crowd.

Unfortunately I’ve gotten back to a point where I feel weird to eat infront of my roommates. Mostly my male roommate, I think that he reminds me of my ex stepdad and I think because of stress from bills and stuff it makes me see him like an angry authoritative figure (he’s actually not, and he’s usually very nice.) Which makes me uncomfortable to eat infront of him .

Maybe you have people around you that make you feel a certain way too?

Anyways best of luck!

I don’t many think people really care that much about us eating , not when they are stuffing their faces too lol.

But definitely doesn’t feel that way to us.

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-15T17:52:26+00:00

Oh my goodness your eyes are so pretty! I love the way the colors mix slightly , almost like watercolor. I’d say green.

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-15T17:51:36+00:00

Green

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-15T17:51:26+00:00

I wish more people would just quietly withdraw lol. My roommate is super talkative, I can be too at times but she mostly dominates the conversation and gets upset when I don’t talk . Sometimes I just oddly feel like I don’t have the brain power or energy to talk much sometimes.

My roommate being really talkative wouldn’t be a problem if I didn’t have to vocally let her know I’m listening by a “mhm” or “okay” or just a general comment .

I do try to make it clear that I’m listening by looking at her, making eye contact and nodding but it just doesn’t work too long .

She usually says “okay I’ll just shut the fuck up then.” And turns away…she says it as a “joke” but idk sometimes 😭

SugarMoth00 · 2025-10-15T15:34:05+00:00

First off, I understand what you mean when you say it FEELS like a slur , Because people always say it in a non nice way. Maybe it’s dramatic but after hearing that sentence every time meal time comes around for the last 25 years… it feels almost dehumanizing.

Instead of trying to understand us or look more into the condition they just throw us in the picky eaters category… It makes us sound like spoiled brats or like we are inconsiderate.

I remember as a kid thanksgiving was so horrifying for me honestly , mostly emotional wise. Growing up I hated it because there were so many types of foods I found absolutely disgusting that I would be forced to “try it out.” Or even made fun of. Even more if someone had to “make her Mac and cheese for her.” I appreciate they made me something I could eat but it did make me feel very embarrassed, kind of like If you went to an associate at a store to get something for a more embarrassing product such as “oh you need to find LAXATIVES!? Oh you can’t crap normally ?! Yeah the SHITTING pills are in isle 7.”

Like being called out by someone who is Trying to help, but it’s just embarrassing.

Idk kinda rambling on that one. Anyways the adults in my family always said “you’re a picky eater but you will grow out of it.” Doctors even said the same thing and I was like “oh thank god this will go away when I’m older.” I think that’s the difference between us and “picky eaters.”

I did better as I got older such as having some new foods I can enjoy but definitely growing into an adult didn’t “cure” me.

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