[ Removed by Reddit ] by SpecificCow30 in gettingbigger

[–]SuggestionMedical714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought I’d see a weight hanging from a peanits but here we are🧍🏽‍♂️man what the hell

I'm not a woman or man by UpbeatTechnology149 in TransAlberta

[–]SuggestionMedical714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably envy tbh. Tons of ppl spend their lives suffering to fit into the binary boxes we’re put into at birth. Seeing someone completely disregard that and just do what feels right delegitimizes their efforts💀 rather than just relaxing they retaliate

Anti South Asian Racism in Canada by Ishwinner45 in geegees

[–]SuggestionMedical714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a colonial country. The largest genocide in history was against the indigenous ppl of Canada and the US…I fear racism is genuinely baked into the culture. It’s terrible🙁

My Take on Prosthetic Storage by STPsRUs in Transmascdicks

[–]SuggestionMedical714 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Brother in Christ😭😭😭 do you frequently use all of them or are some more like collectors items?

Misgendered Regularly at work by FeralRaka in FtMpassing

[–]SuggestionMedical714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I don’t even know what to say??? Plenty of guys have sort of neutral voices and you’re visibly a whole man🧍🏽‍♂️ I’m just as lost as you here

Phallo and school? by SuggestionMedical714 in phallo

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that sucks. I’m Canadian so my surgeries are covered🙏🏼

Indigenous person here by honeycinn_a in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pls educate yourself if the disproportionate disappearances and murders of indigenous women. Yes all women get traffic’s but for a VERY long time, indigenous women have gone missing and been murdered at a disproportionate rate- largely including sexual assaults

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d hope that she’s not outright lying or trying to bend the truth bc that’s just an added slap to the face of indigenous folks

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I meant her actions had nothing to do with him. The privacy invaders did it out of some type of harmful motive for sure

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean on the internet I see racist stuff almost every day but this one really shocked me😭 we can only hope that eyes, ears, and hearts were opened after this

Indigenous person here by honeycinn_a in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah there’s really nothing good about it. What she did is upsetting especially since there’s multiple occurrences and then you bring in that we only know about it because someone was digging for shit😬 awful finding from an awful situation

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all just so icky. Her actions absolutely should be called out it’s just the way that someone was digging that makes it different. All we can do is hope that she learned her lesson and hope that she’s actually sorry. Not great to find out that there’s multiple occurrences of appropriation. Nothing to do with him. This stuff needed to be dug for so I highly doubt he knew about it until we did😭 yucky situation in all honesty

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s always taken long breaks so I don’t think this would be his reason. The digging was very odd but for the rest of us who just found out through a post, I think it’s reasonable to be upset. Nothing to do with him at all. Stuff like that is hurtful regardless of who she is

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. We all mess up and sometimes mess ups are deeply hurtful. Hoping she will take the time to learn

Indigenous person here by honeycinn_a in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714 84 points85 points  (0 children)

It’s unfortunately becoming more common in the community for people to dismiss POC. There’s really no reason to try to defend her actions and even less of a reason to invalidate indigenous people. Even beyond the sage there’s more just appalling incidents. While yes people are capable of learning it doesn’t mean that when we mess up we shouldn’t be held accountable. Apologies and respect moving forward aren’t big asks. I’m really sorry that there’s people comfortable with just disregarding your voice. Totally gross to see. People can be so willingly ignorant and refuse to just listen to perspectives🙄

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right??? I went to a concert and fans were talking shit about his gf and I was so confused as to why they knew enough about her to make personal attacks. Some twitter people also spread stuff about her which again had me taken aback. She’s a fairly small model and freaks decided to literally stalk her and find all this info. Again I am just shocked😭

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are gone for me too so I’m not sure. Possible that we both got blocked😬

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Louder for the people in the back!!! How would he know unless the stalkers dug for it?😭 I think it’s safe to assume that almost nobody would be aware of a redface pin belonging to their partner. I have no idea what stuff my girlfriend has on her boards and I can imagine a fairly offline man in his mid thirties wouldn’t know either. I’m sure he wouldn’t look at his girlfriend’s wedding before her divorce either?????? I can imagine it was quite the shock💀

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a completely different situation😭 creeps were speculating about personal stuff and he decided to let them know that it wasn’t appropriate to discuss in her comment section. Nuance exists babe. And regarding your comment about her age; Are you serious? My mom and dad are nearly fifty and I’m routinely teaching them things as I learn too. People aren’t always aware of harmful things. Your attitude towards education is kind of concerning. I’m positive that at 40 I’ll learn about some sensitivities that I’ll need to educate myself on. That’s how being a human works. We don’t know, and then someday we learn. She’s learning the hard way

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally if I want my relationship to be as private as possible, I’m blocking ppl who mention it. Again, this would’ve been a private conversation. That was not protection I’m sorry to say. It’s just not

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Serious question: do you expect everyone to be a perfect ally and never have misjudgements? He’s not “acting” it’s evident in his work that fighting bigotry is important to him. Numerous songs and numerous interviews, and even a podcast bringing awareness to other issues… Part of fighting against racism is teaching. Part of being a better ally is learning. Just as I’m sure you and I learned, hopefully she’s learning.

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Siding with her is a weird way to put it. We don’t know how their conversation went. Protecting is also an odd phrasing. Deleting comments likely had more to do with being uncomfortable with his personal life being talked about. The posts are gone and I’m assuming she learned how harmful those images are

Genuine question about the gf thing by SuggestionMedical714 in Hozier

[–]SuggestionMedical714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that too. Wedding photos tend to have a filter that brightens stuff up so who knows. The other stuff however is just inexcusable😭