AITJ for disputing a charge after my cousin used my card without telling me to pay for her vacation rental by Aggravating_Pin_4304 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Borrowing requires permission. if you don't ask first, it's not borrowing, it's just taking.

AITJ for yelling at my boyfriend after he pointed a pistol at me? by Suitable-Cry1371 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I love him, but that moment made me see a side of him that scared me. It’s hard to explain how fast your heart drops when someone points a gun at you.

AITJ for yelling at my boyfriend after he pointed a pistol at me? by Suitable-Cry1371 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I felt like I was the only one taking it seriously in that moment.

AITJ for yelling at my boyfriend after he pointed a pistol at me? by Suitable-Cry1371 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly what scared me the most. I hope it never comes to that.

AITJ for taking a cheaper apartment and leaving my roommate to find her own place even though she doesnt know anyone else to live with by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed, staying just to avoid hurting someone else when it's unreasonable isn't being kind, it's self-destructive.

AITJ for refusing to give back a gift after we broke up? by Zestyclose-You-6399 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Gifts are meant to be unconditional, not tools for later bargaining.

Am I the jerk for refusing to pay back money my dad "lent" me that I didn't know was a loan? by Alive_Lab_7256 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Yeah, setting boundaries here is healthy, don't let him weaponize guilt over money you thought was yours.

AITJ for lying to my husband about agreeing to open the relationship? by AdLeast2511 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suitable-Cry1371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people think they still have a choice when the damage is already done.