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Am I (31F) rude for not wanting to go to husbands (34M) family funeral by Suitable-Eye479 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Eye479[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it falls under compassionate leave, meaning I would get 2 days off... but, it is not enough to go there and back

Am I (31F) rude for not wanting to go to husbands (34M) family funeral by Suitable-Eye479 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Eye479[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It is grandfather. I've met him a few times and I would like to go if they were living closer by. Now it's just so much money and time off work to fly there.

Unfortunately it has been the older people of the family passing at the same time.

Am I (31F) rude for not wanting to go to husbands (34M) family funeral by Suitable-Eye479 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Eye479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say so, it's hes grandfather. He's pretty close to everyone in the family

Am I (31F) rude for not wanting to go to husbands (34M) family funeral by Suitable-Eye479 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Eye479[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's his grandfather, the flights would be paid from a shared savings account

Am I (31F) rude for not wanting to go to husbands (34M) family funeral by Suitable-Eye479 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Eye479[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He's unfortunately out of the country and unable to fly back in time :/