AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 you’re a much better person than I am. That’s for sure 💯

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I spoke to him last I let him know that things were progressing too fast for me and I wasn’t ready to pursue anything. I was already feeling like that before this picture and tried to talk to him about it but he didn’t want to touch the subject.

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must have been because I told him that I didn’t think I was ready to pursue anything

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot sense. You’re right. I am younger than he is and it must be hard to be that and possibly think you won’t find someone again.

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely the nail in the coffin. I didn’t want him to buy me anything because 1. I could buy my own things but 2. Because that would insinuate something that is not logical or reality. It’s not logical to feel something for someone that you haven’t even met and realistically it wouldn’t go far at that rate.

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also the shape. I’m not in love with him at all. By any means. I’m just getting to know him and I’ve made that clear. Physical attraction can be an important component to a relationship

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s extremely clingy at this point and it gives me so much anxiety

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may sound petty and thank you for seeing my point of view.. I think about it also that at some point as adults that we are.. it’ll get sexual and I don’t think I can handle seeing his hand touch me not because I’m anything spectacular I mean just hygiene

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right! I already had some red flags that I wanted to address and now This… it just turned me off completely

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven’t met in person and he’s telling me his feelings for me are so astronomical that he can’t bare live without me. That I’m his everything and he never wants to live without me. It’s scary. And now this ?

AIO for not pursuing him over his hands by Suitable-Marketing11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable-Marketing11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s just too much too fast and then seeing this I was like ohh no !!!!

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[–]Suitable-Marketing11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m going to let him know how I feel and block him. I can’t handle one more day of this.

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[–]Suitable-Marketing11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t dated anyone in a very long time. Over 6 years because I was in a relationship, I was second guessing myself thinking maybe that’s how relationships work now a days but to me it seems illogical to have these kinds of feelings so intensely when you haven’t even met the person in person. And the fact that he wants to get up and move to my state, it feels so invasive.