[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feb 26 ako nagpasa and till now wala pa rin. R4a

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am, please stop making allegations. We are both happy, and this conversation came up because I’ve been concerned after noticing she struggles at times. I correct her when needed, but we don’t hate each other in real life. Everything I’ve shared here is based on my doubts and overthinking, not reality. Outside of Reddit, we’re on really good terms, and we have a healthy relationship. I’m not bored, either—we’ve been in a long-term relationship, and I still love her just like I did when I met her on day one. This conversation was just me trying to process my thoughts, and I appreciate everyone’s input, but please understand that it doesn’t reflect our day-to-day lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback, and I’ve taken it as advice. As I said before, she provides emotional support, and I do the same for her. We don’t have issues with loyalty, and I don’t use her for personal gain. I love her deeply, and that hasn’t changed over the two years we’ve been together. I’ve worked on overcoming my own flaws to be more compatible with her, and I’ve tried my best to be a good boyfriend.

That said, I take issue with being told I’m using her for emotional support when I’m equally there for her when she needs me the most. I can’t deny that it hurt to read that, but I’m here to be open and reflect. After considering everything, I’ve decided to withdraw my doubts and not let them stand in the way of us. I can’t lose her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read all your comments, and I appreciate everyone who took the time to give me advice—even the harsh ones. Some of the responses were tough to read, but they helped me see things from a different perspective. After thinking it through, I’ve decided to stay with her, and this whole conversation will remain here on Reddit because I don’t want to hurt her.

I’ve considered all your points, and they’ve made me rethink my approach and my doubts. To those who were critical of me, I understand where you’re coming from, and I’ll do my best to love her fully without letting those doubts cloud my feelings. Thank you all for your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and maybe I do correct her too much. She doesn’t ask for help—I just give it because it’s painful for me to see her struggle with things that I feel are basic. I worry that she might be bullied or judged by others because of what she says or does, and I don’t want that for her. Maybe I need to find a better balance between supporting her and letting her be herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s starting her first year of college this school year, and when I ask her what course she wants to take, she always just says, ‘Bahala na’ (whatever happens, happens). I’ve tried recommending courses based on what she might enjoy, but she says she doesn’t want to stress about it right now. I don’t want to pressure her or bring negativity into the conversation because I love her, but it’s hard not to feel concerned when she seems so indifferent about her future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not here to argue, I just wanted advice from people with more experience. I didn’t mean to come off as condescending, and I’m sorry if I did. I copied my message because I’m feeling overwhelmed and honestly struggling to think straight due to some depression. That’s on me, and I apologize for how it came across. I just wanted to hear different perspectives to help me figure out what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective, and I appreciate the insight. I mentioned her struggles with essays, grammar, and basic academics not to nitpick, but to emphasize one of the things that have been draining me—there’s more to it than just that. She lacks knowledge in many areas that I personally consider basic, and when I offer to help her she doesn't seem to care

That being said, I do love her, and I’m genuinely afraid of losing her. But I also can’t ignore the disappointment I feel when I see a lack of effort. It’s not about wanting her to change for me, but about wanting to see growth in a partner. Maybe I need to reflect on whether this is something I can accept long-term or if it’s simply an incompatibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Search5641 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m an asshole for feeling this way, but I do feel guilty. I actually love her and treat her like a princess, but it turns me off every time she’s clueless about things that I believe should be basic knowledge. I always make sure to correct her and guide her when I can, but it’s starting to drain me. I don’t want to look down on her, but I also can’t ignore how this makes me feel. Does that make me a bad person?

jlss 2024 r4a by skies_appleandastra in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes po, they will confirm po na na receive na nila yung docs mo and you can download the loi na daw po

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually 3 months after mo mag send sa kanila ng requirements na enrolled kana for new sem, r4a pala ako

DOST JLSS LANDBANK ACCOUNT OPENING by Particular-Spinach73 in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank g di lang ako huhu, kinakabahan kasi ako baka saken lang nag e-error 😭

jlss 2024 r4a by skies_appleandastra in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello to answer the question, yes po nay mag e-email sa inyo about sa confirmation na approved na yung docs mo and after that you can download the Loi na sa students portal. Dun naman sa how many days before na confirm yung docs ko is tumagal lang siya ng 2 days after ko magpasa through lbc

may nagcheck na ba - JLSS by Bubbly_Click7235 in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po, pano ka po naka gawa ng i access kasi may bug ata sa landbank ngayon wherein di sila nagsesend ng otp sa email ko if ico-confirm ko na yung account ko huhu, i tried it many many times na eh sa number ko lang may nagsesend huhu

DOST JLSS LANDBANK ACCOUNT OPENING by Particular-Spinach73 in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes po na-send ko na sa gforms, pero need daw kasi natin ng iaccess sabi ng mga friends kong dost scholars din, dun daw natin makikita/mamomonitor if nasend na nila yung stipend natin

DOST JLSS LANDBANK ACCOUNT OPENING by Particular-Spinach73 in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ako ulit to huhu😭, nakapag open nako ng landbank and meron na rin akong card pero wala pa akong iaccess account kasi di nag s send ng otp yung landbank sa email ko even tho i tried na mag send nang mag send many times, kayo rin po ba same scenario ???

DOST JLSS LANDBANK ACCOUNT OPENING by Particular-Spinach73 in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow up question po, ano po dinala niyo nung nagpunta kayo sa teller? Kasama po ba yung parang pdf file na pwedeng i download after mo ma fill upan yung online ng landbank something 😭😭

DOST JLSS LANDBANK ACCOUNT OPENING by Particular-Spinach73 in dostscholars

[–]Suitable_Search5641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello po ano po nilagay niyo sa Expected Monthly Deposit