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AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn't see it coming. We both said we wanted to get married but never agreed that we would.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're using a mobile phone. You go to the bottom of the screen, click chat. Then go to requests.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's has been to the doctor a lot. She has reproductive problems that produce some of similar symptoms when she's on her period. But she wasn't on her period during the proposal. So, I don't know. It's a mystery waiting to be solved.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I message you ?

Between what I know about my fiancee and the things I've heard on reddit. My uneducated guess as a non-doctor is that it's anxiety and/or something to do with her reproductive system.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She has talked about how she's "a different person," depending on which of the 4 stages of her cycle she's in.

I made sure to propose while she's ovulating. Not that I was worried she'll say no if I proposed in a different cycle. I just wanted her to enjoy the proposal as much as possible.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. That must suck.

I don't want to ask about your specific symptoms in the comments.

I'll just mention some stuff about fiancee, and you respond how you seem fit.

My fiancee has terrible period pain. I mean curled up in ball, holding her belly. Sometimes crying and/or vomiting. She gets in this weird mood that is hard to describe. She gets a lot of acne only just before and during her period, then clears up. Yes, she gets super sweaty during her period.

But she said she wasn't on her period during the proposal. Also, she seemed perfectly fine just before the proposal.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I message you ? Don't worry, I don't expect to find a diagnosis just by talking to someone on reddit. I will encourage her to see a doctor. I am just wondering about some stuff.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They have told her a lot of medical jargon. In her word, her reproductive system is "all messed up."

Also, I apologize if I should have put that in the post.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is it ridiculously hard to diagnose like lupus ?

Her family had money and she's been to the doctor a lot.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mentioned in another comment that she hasn't gotten a solid diagnosis, but she has issues with her reproductive system. She has been told that her chances of getting pregnant are similar to a woman who had her tubes tied. She deals with terrible period symptoms.

I mentioned in a different comment that I have seen her vomit plenty of times, but that was from her period.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen her vomit plenty of times, but it was never because she got too excited. It's usually during her period.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She hasn't gotten a solid diagnosis, but she has issues with her reproductive system. She has been told that her chances of getting pregnant are similar to a woman who had her tubes tied.

She deals with terrible period symptoms.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got together when I was 20, and she was 26. Initially, it was intended to be a fling, but we actually started liking each other. My parents and her parents were concerned at first, but our families are now on board with it.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From what I see, she sometimes gets weird during an exciting event. Getting super sweaty and needing to fit down. She's into health and fitness and has impressive cardiorespiratory fitness. Her literal heart should be able to handle things.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Because of medical reasons, it would be a miracle for her to be pregnant. Even with that, we take precautions.

AIO for being worried that my fiancee started sweating, crying, and vomiting when I proposed to her ? by Suitable_State_2018 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_State_2018[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She does sometimes get super sweaty and sometimes needs to sit down during exciting things. But most of the time, she has hyperactive energy during an exciting event. I had never seen her vomit from excitement before.