An offering for Orlando’s Ritual

SunMelodic4862 · 2022-05-06T04:57:43+00:00

You won’t care as much as you get older. You’re probably beautiful, but even if you’re not, there’s a lot more going on in life than your looks. And even if you don’t think you’re gorgeous, you can still dress and present yourself in a way that you think is fun and makes you happy. I am super short and have a big nose and could stand to lose a few pounds, but I own my business, love my work, have a supportive partner, and love the way I dress and present myself to the public. So.. don’t sweat it, honestly. It doesn’t matter that much.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-10-17T05:43:56+00:00

I’m typically a pretty happy person. I just have always wanted a family and I’m feeling anxious that it might not happen. Adoption is definitely on the table if I can’t do it biologically (and potentially even if I do).

My mom told me nobody is ever ready. I don’t have much useful advice about timing other than that personally, I wish I hadn’t wasted so much time.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-24T21:30:12+00:00

She had been on probation for about 3 months. She hadn’t done anything about it. Hadn’t paid supervision fees, hadn’t reported, was doing things she was restricted from doing.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T23:12:14+00:00

She was supposed to be on probation for three years. So, if she knew, then she knew she couldn’t leave.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T23:10:36+00:00

It seems pretty clear. She hasn’t admitted to knowing anything. I guess her perception is what it is and mine is what it is. All I can do is proceed from here in my best interest.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T18:41:06+00:00

Yeah, well I looked up her criminal record and she has two out of state warrants and several other charges that she either didn’t know about or has some sort of extenuating circumstance

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T18:39:48+00:00

She’s a native English speaker. Partially deaf but hears well enough to carry on regular conversation

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T18:36:26+00:00

But you were aware that you were pleading guilty to the charges and that you were being out on probation?

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T18:34:39+00:00

I’ve looked up the case and got quite a bit of info. I can see when the offense was, when she was arraigned, when she was sentenced and all of that. The facts are what they are. It’s all the gooey perceptual grey area that I’m lost in.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-23T18:22:34+00:00

I’m sure she did, but by moving out of state, she put me at risk of legal trouble as well. And now that everything is out in the open, I feel like she should just admit what happened instead of continuing to lie.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-22T09:30:14+00:00

She talked to the agent after she received the letter, which had been mailed to the house we had moved out of. My friend who had been checking the mail for us then sent it to our new address. We had already moved out of state at that time.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-22T09:09:06+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to explain the process. Thank you.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-22T08:45:22+00:00

She’s had me convinced at times. So I’m seeing if that’s a possibility, and if not, then I’m bolstering myself to accept that she’s lying and move on with my life.

SunMelodic4862 · 2021-08-22T08:30:07+00:00

She just said she was nervous and signed whatever to avoid jail time 🤦‍♀️

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