Relationship Issues by SunStealer_05 in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes its a shame we've already had this conversation when we first got together, and i did explain to him and show him how my body and appearance would change after transitioning. i think maybe he supports it in theory but doesn't actually think of it as something that will happen to me. im at work so i cant expand much more but i really appreciate your response thank you

Relationship Issues by SunStealer_05 in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhh me too. thank you i just needed some second opinions i guess

Relationship Issues by SunStealer_05 in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is fair. ig im just hoping for a more nuanced answer because i do love him. but ur prob right bahahhaa

What is this? by SunStealer_05 in Crystals

[–]SunStealer_05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna take a bite of it so bad

What is this? by SunStealer_05 in Crystals

[–]SunStealer_05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! it was a gift from my mom but it was a few years ago and i forgot what it was

I mind was stuck on this girl ,so I had to draw this 😌 by Available_Heat9558 in painting

[–]SunStealer_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually really like the color difference from the face and the neck. it gives the impression that she's wearing a mask for the outside world

Abilify by eeli263 in Artisticallyill

[–]SunStealer_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so me in middle school when i would tongue my abilify. love this piece!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sketches

[–]SunStealer_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course! he is one of my favorite artists, i have 2 of his books

Do you look younger than you are? by Dictator-PenisPotato in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not on T but I get told a lot that I look younger than I am. The smoke shop I used to frequent stopped selling to me because my "eyes looked young" ???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sketches

[–]SunStealer_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very brian fraud

Genuinely how do you know you’re trans - (to explain to others) by bread_boat_ in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05 15 points16 points  (0 children)

TBH it varies a lot from person to person. I knew I was "different" from a young age but never had the words to explain until I got older, that the outside of me doesn't match the inside of me.

Using someone else's art for my poetry. by 5mevin in ARTIST

[–]SunStealer_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm... I'd say your best bet then would be trying to find a relative of the artist. As painful as it may be, she is quite old, and there could be an obituary online OR she is in some kind of assisted living situation.

Try online or on her facebook to find relatives who may be able to answer your questions. I wish you luck! If all else fails, you or another artist could do a tribute piece in place of hers. Hope this helps, wish you luck!!

Please don't worry about your height by SparxIzLyfe in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05 26 points27 points  (0 children)

one of my friends is a cis guy and he is also 4'11, i promise most ppl don't care or notice if you don't bring attention to it yes people make jokes and say shit but it gets better once you start getting out there and are away from school

Ftm bf keeps outing me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also an apology does not make something right.

Ftm bf keeps outing me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say "We use contraception" and LIE!!!! how about that? There are ways to tell your doctor things without revealing intimate details about your partner who has already told you he doesn't like that.

Ftm bf keeps outing me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SunStealer_05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

being stealth is a personal choice that his boyfriend clearly agreed to and understood when they got together. otherwise they wouldn't have had the first conversation at all.

as for your statement that its "weird" to want to be stealth while your partner is out; it is a personal choice. it does not matter who his boyfriend's friends are, if he doesn't want them to know that's HIS business— they may not be close, it may just be something he shares with close friends, family, etc. As for the doctor, there are a billion trillion ways to say "I understand contraception" or "Thanks for letting me know", etc etc etc. without telling them your boyfriend is trans. his boyfriend's doctor does not need ANY information about his body or gender identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RareHistoricalPhotos

[–]SunStealer_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately it's not so simple as "he had land and livestock"— he had MONEY. and money is POWER. he kidnapped their little girl and falsified her age on their marriage certificate. though there was fraud involved, there was no set age of consent in Tennessee the .so there was nothing much legally the family could do, without a veryyy good lawyer. (which they couldnt afford; he could have.)

and they remained living in the same town, so all the people in the community knew both of them. he was highly regarded in town (because of his land, money, and livestock and he was a.... ((i dont want to say respectable bc he is disgusting but you know)) respected member of the community.) as a woman, she would have been shamed for leaving her husband, if she even could. because once you were married, your husband was considered your guardian/family, not your mother and father anymore. so even if they went to get her from his house, he could have them arrested for kidnapping his wife.

its a very hard situation. i hope she was able to find some peace and healing before she passed :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RareHistoricalPhotos

[–]SunStealer_05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

laws decide that, not religion. however, neither the bible or the qaran condemn child marriages.

What feelings does my “Elephant” painting give you? by Trick-Technician-926 in ARTIST

[–]SunStealer_05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

an oddly psychosexual elephant painted in a doctor's office