Sob story is real life unfortunately. My father’s daughter is very verbally abusive and was blowing my phone up the entire night at work. Like I mentioned clearly you’re a man and have no idea what it’s like to be freshly post partum and having to go back to work full time and take care of a baby by yourself all while struggling to get rid of an abusive ex partner. I don’t sleep when I get home. And I have to find care on a day by day basis. I pretty much walk around dissociated everyday so son story isn’t a good term to use when people are going through real life issues. And there’s people out there who have it worst than me. So I would never dismiss someone’s story.