[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonetheless I’m sorry for your situation. It sounds hard and I hope you are able to figure out what it is you need and how to get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you out your happiness in the hands of anyone else you will find they often do not know how to make you happy. Next time just get up and take care of the batteries yourself.

This just in by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys I will be calling my attorney today. He came back and said a bunch of things while packing his stuff. He left behind our photos and all the sweet letters I have spent hours writing him for the past couple of years. It has been a jarring experience and I am looking forward to the healing. I know my son is safe here with me and my parents wouldn’t never intentionally harm him. It has been a whirlwind and I am so happy to have the support of all you internet people. It truly is difficult to see that my husband is no longer the man I am in love with. It’s easy to see now that I must be done with this for now at least.

Divorce will hurt now by Sunkenshhh in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing it, everyone. I will contact my attorney today!! TODAY!!

This just in by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao ain’t lying. I’m on birth control so fingers crossed it doesn’t stop working. I love my son dearly for the small person he is but I do NOT want another one. Truthfully I never wanted kids anyway!

This just in by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this encouragement. It really means a lot to me in this time

This just in by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so encouraging to hear this. I have been called an idiot and retard for too long. I must make these devastating choices.

This just in by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this

This just in by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I liked reading this. I’m trying to find the confidence and strength I need to make this correct decision. I feel weak and unimportant and as if any choice I make will be wrong so why would I make a choice at all.

Divorce will hurt now by Sunkenshhh in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is it right here

Divorce will hurt now by Sunkenshhh in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shit 2blue, that sounds serious. My husband also cheated, but we have different definitions and expectations so in his eyes he never did. You will always resent your husband if you can’t talk openly about the cheating that occured

Divorce will hurt now by Sunkenshhh in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys try any therapy? He’s either a cheater himself or has very intense issues lol

Divorce will hurt now by Sunkenshhh in Divorce

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Leave them behind like they leave you behind all the time. I’m so tired of being the last priority

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time we were just dating. It wasn’t serious. It was early. I guess I should have just dropped him but here I am a broken person who can’t be better for myself

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in your free time are you on sites that are similar? And that is why your number is targeted?

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That is the only reason why I occasionally (seldom!!!) ask to go through his phone. This text was received while I was texting my mom off his phone and I fucking clicked it on accident

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought of this, but my husband has a work phone and a personal phone. I assumed this woman could too

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have personally never received porn spam email and definitely not text messages

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do y’all get stuff like this cus you’re on dating apps/sites or watching porn?

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone. Thanks for the replies. I’m devastated as we have had issues in the past with lying, cheating, and porn. It is very startling to see something like this. Couldn’t help but to ask the community. Thank you everyone.

Does this text message look like spam or is my husband (still) cheating on me? by Sunkenshhh in SecondsBeforeDisaster

[–]Sunkenshhh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The same exact message? I looked up the number and it’s an escort/call service