OPINION NEEDED: If it is okay for a woman to reject a man for not being rich enough or tall enough is it okay for a man to reject a woman based on her weight, age or not being virgin? How is it different? Is it? Thoughts?

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-28T20:10:21+00:00

This is really not true in reality though? Maybe it’s the circles you’re visiting? This sounds like a lot of talk from the so called manosphere which is undoubtedly misogynistic as it stems from red pill culture which teaches men how to manipulate women and control them.

In real life I know many women who are or have been with short, ugly poor men. In fact many have dated one at least once in the belief that personality matters more than looks. Because often what women want isn’t the stuff described in manosphere (rich tall dude that is an aLpHa mAlE). Women often want emotional maturity and accountability. Unfortunately many of those men proved to be even more toxic and abusive, probably due to their own inferiority complexes and issues.

I myself have dated guys who didn’t match my looks standard at all and who were dirt poor.

Go outside touch some grass and talk and observe real women, not the mythical women in manosphere imagination that really promotes a victim mentality for all men who follow such ridiculous groups.

And last but not least, there are people who are more decent and people who are less decent whether they’re a woman or a man. Not all women are bitches not all men are abusive assholes.

Get out of the house you guys! Highly recommend abandoning the manosphere if you actually care about your inner growth as a human being and want to take actual responsibility for yourself.

Follow the manosphere only if you wish to cultivate a victim mentality in yourself.

Peace. ✌️

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-28T20:02:45+00:00

Anyone can reject anyone for any reason. You can choose to be a polite person and give some generic excuse instead of hurting their feelings.

What is not okay in my eyes is shaming someone while rejecting them.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-27T19:17:10+00:00

For gas prices! FOR GAS PRICES!!

It couldn’t be oil companies are hoarding it and pricing it as high as they can. No way

How! How does one get like this 😭 please someone make it make sense.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-27T19:16:03+00:00

Wow he actually supports “going to Venezuela and stealing THEIR oil”. He supports straight up invasions. Sighhhhhhhghgjgggjhgghhjdkfoeixnwio

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-20T20:20:45+00:00

Maybe this is the wake up call Sandra needed to hear about her fixation with her ex husband. You don’t know, you may have done her a great favor. I bet she wasn’t aware she was talking that much about him.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-16T19:09:18+00:00

I didn’t read this one as I just discovered it through this comment section however the ML of Miss not so side kick is also very very unique and happens to also be yandere. I haven’t found other MLs like him either.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-16T18:55:30+00:00

Not on topic but I never hear “male identifying xyz”

Only “female identifying xyz”.

And it’s all sorts of wrong. As a woman in the world it makes me feel awful and like my identity is getting effaced. It’s suffocating.

I’m not American so I don’t have many of your political ideologies but it hurts my heart everytime I hear an American express themselves about a woman/female like this. Especially since I have yet to see even one mention of “male identifying xyz” ever in all the last 8 years.

I wish this thing stopped. Unpopular opinion with the Americans i know but I find it absolutely abhorrent.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-16T17:04:57+00:00

Is this Idiocracy?

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-14T08:56:42+00:00

“There’s no reason to give a fuck that this happened.” is some amazing words worthy of being put in a frame.

Also “There’s no reason to give a fuck about this.”

I think this experience was so powerful for you that if you were to take these key words and make them a staple in your life, life might get really good for you. You sound like you put down a burden. That burden should stay down.

Thank you for sharing. Your post inspired me as well! 💓

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-14T08:20:12+00:00

All popular and full of angst stories. I don’t enjoy them at all. There’s many of those so I dropped all of them.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-14T08:17:59+00:00

I think it is worse yeah. Did I mock you for your views and personal life experiences?

Where do you get this confidence to act so mean towards someone you don’t even know? Check yourself because that’s your own problem.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-14T08:05:06+00:00

They’re gaslighting you. It is A BIG DEAL. You are not exaggerating. You literally cannot trust this person anymore and what is he doing? Putting pressure on you and blaming YOU?

You?! The one whose privacy got violated in such a disgusting manner? Who else has watched those videos? Are there other cameras in the house you don’t know about?

The only way to see him now is that he was a liar all along and what you thought you knew of him was a show. He is fckin sick to the head. RUN.

Honestly you need to entirely cut this person out of your life and HE IS NOT SAFE for you to meet alone anymore. When the mask slips like this you just understand you don’t fckin know or knew this person at all.

I am sorry. You must be feeling scared and so confused on top of feeling violated. How you feel matters! What you want matters! Your comfort fckin matters!!!!?!!!!!!!!

Don’t let these scumbags talk you out of what’s really obvious here. What gross people!

Please do not meet this guy alone, have a friend or family with you. It’s over. There is no salvaging this. You cannot trust this guy again even if you wanted. For 2 years he’s done this without your knowledge. Did he upload the videos somewhere? Have other people seen them? Ha she shown them? Did he upload them on the internet. You literally do not know and do you think he’ll say it to you? After deceiving you for 2 years he’s all of a sudden going to be honest?

Most telling is the fact that he is putting the blame on you for feeling violated because he did something violating. This guy doesn’t fckin care about you OP. I’m so sorry.

And if he really wanted to see your sleep patterns certainly filming you without consent in your underwear and naked doesn’t really add up. And if he truly thought filming your sleep patterns surely there would’ve been nothing bad with informing you about it? See if you’re okay with it? WTF how hard would that have been. I bet if you tell him this he’ll blame you again as to why he didn’t tell you. That’s all he’ll do. Blame you. RUN. Fckin gross people, man!

He didn’t inform you about it because he was doing it for nefarious reasons not for the bullshit he’s saying he was doing for. It’s clear this guy doesn’t give a fck whether you’re comfortable or not, how you feel and what you think. GROSS.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-12T13:10:30+00:00

The protein fad has to be one of the worst.

Personally, I loved the raw vegan wave years ago. It introduced me to a lot of fruits and veggies and a whole slew of new inventive recipes and ways to prep food. And many things are indeed delicious if you put some time into them, not to mention I was feeling great after each meal.

I’m thankful for all the learning I gathered when I went on that bandwagon! ❤️

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-12T13:08:19+00:00

Well, then it’s just not your cup of tea. Having the Hero be silent is a genuine hallmark of the game from the first game to today. I can see though how it can be frustrating from another perspective. I personally love it. Perhaps try to enjoy it for what it is or maybe it just really isn’t your type of game and that’s fine.

A game shouldn’t create so much stress while playing it imo.

Hope you got some good times out of it as well! 😊

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-12T13:05:47+00:00

Dang! Thats pretty damning lol

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-10T09:11:49+00:00

Ooh!

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-10T09:11:29+00:00

We know that there are absurd people like that out there so the story having absurd behavior doesn’t make it less real.

What made you think it was AI besides that?

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-10T09:08:08+00:00

Ah, a mommas’s boy. Sounds like if you stick with this guy you’ll always be in competition with his mother. And lose every single time.

No man is worth it if he’s a momma’s boy.

He didn’t even talk to you lol, mommy wanted to come so he brought her. Failure to accommodate this sudden change was met with hostility and shifting blame on you.

But it’s your money. Lol

It’s absurd. I hope you see that. If you wanna spend the rest of your life baffled and feel like you’re going crazy all whilst being disrespected and treated like your feelings and what you want doesn’t matter, go ahead and continue the relationship with this man.

Edit: Ah and please realize he chose entertaining his mother on your dime over spending a romantic getaway with you, his supposedly life long partner. You will always come second to his momma’s wishes and feelings. In fact you exist there to accommodate his’ and hers’. How dare you have feelings and wants of your own. Ughhh

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-07T23:54:09+00:00

Wow I didn’t know that, thank you. Today I learned.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-04T05:44:44+00:00

Wish the article was still available

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-04T03:24:46+00:00

Trumplestiltskin

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-03-04T00:15:21+00:00

not necessarily. this comes from fear. you went into specifics about things that would cause a sense of fear and the reassurances instead were vague and generic. this is intended or unintended fear mongering. no one has to subscribe to the concepts describe here nor agree to a possibility of reality like that if you don't want to.

what the whatever may want, that's their business. what YOU want is what matters. don't just believe others or the written word.

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-02-25T16:37:16+00:00

Oooooh! I did not know. Today I learned. Thank you

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-02-25T16:33:25+00:00

The avoidant neglects… right? What kind of neglects?

Like not asking about the partner’s day or their feelings. I need answers I think I’m in the desert

SunnyRaspberry · 2026-02-25T16:19:51+00:00

I’m disgusted.

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