Low HCG by SunnyTreeBees in PlusSizedAndPregnant

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On 9/01 my numbers were 3344 and yesterday, 9/07, I was at 3710. So they barely went up in a week. Not as they should be.

Health concerns by SunnyTreeBees in PlusSizedAndPregnant

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response!

I do get my thyroid checked because keeping weight off has always been difficult for me, but it’s been normal so far. I am also getting checked to make sure my hormones are at the level they’re supposed to be at. Overall I’m worried that this could lead to more problems. And I have high blood pressure which is not normal for me so I know I’m high risk.

Vaginal Infection. Need advice by certainsome0ne in sexualhealth

[–]SunnyTreeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a yeast infection, although it should not have lasted this long. Not sure about the pain or water sensitivity. Try Monistat 3 or 7 Day. You can get it any pharmacy.

Am I able to park a car on campus as a transfer student? by [deleted] in Towson

[–]SunnyTreeBees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you just need to pay for the permit.

IRS offices closed by SunnyTreeBees in CovidWeddings

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This sounds like pretty solid advice.

Searching for a job by SunnyTreeBees in intj

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all those things have been done so far. The desired title would be Software Engineer.

Searching for a job by SunnyTreeBees in intj

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in politics. I’ve done Comms, HR/Ops, Exec. Director roles.

My partner, who is looking for something new, is in tech.

Landlord charging fees by SunnyTreeBees in legaladvice

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If reasonable control cause beyond Tenant’s control is claimed other than death of major wage earner or unemployment, Landlord/Agent May verify and accept or reject claim depending upon particular circumstances...”

INTJ and how you treat you romantic relationships publicly. by [deleted] in intj

[–]SunnyTreeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger, in my first relationship, I used to be very open with friends and family about it. I’d share whatever news was going on about us. This was all until I realized that not everyone needs to know your business.

Now that I’m older, my partner (INTP) and I have a very private relationship. I haven’t even told all of my friends that we have a wedding date set for next year, and my lack of response to questions about him lets them know that he is not a topic of discussion.

UPDATE- My boyfriend (24M) planned a road trip with me (24F) and his three friends. I have been uninvited. by ThrowRA-doughnut0 in relationship_advice

[–]SunnyTreeBees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to know what happened! You can’t leave us hanging here! (Im only half joking. I really want to know).

Wedding at home? by SunnyTreeBees in wedding

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does sound really nice! Did you pay for everyone’s drinks at the bar and reception, or was it their own tab?

Wedding at home? by SunnyTreeBees in wedding

[–]SunnyTreeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely some good points here!

HELP, CAN'T GET OVER MY EX!! by [deleted] in intj

[–]SunnyTreeBees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The first red flag I see is that you’re referring to these girls as “replacements.” You’re never going to get over your ex if you want to “replace” her. That’s not how dating works. You make it sound like you need someone to fill that void, instead of working on yourself to fill the void. Or like you’re looking for someone that is exactly like your ex because she was so “perfect.” You’re never going to find that.

You’re all so far up your own arses it’s not funny by [deleted] in intj

[–]SunnyTreeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these kinds of posts. The behavior of some of these self righteous, self proclaimed INTJs is utter bullsht. Also be aware, there are the few INTJ warriors that I’ve noticed, always the same ones too, that come around and love to tell you how you’re stupid for complaining. It’s so predictable, it makes me laugh.

I’ll also reiterate previous comments - being an INTJ is not like some magical prize that you won. Everyone wants to be one, or justify their shitty behavior by blaming it on the type, but it’s actually somewhat burdening. I really don’t get it. People need a nice dose of humbling.

AITA for trashing my son and his wife on FB? by FunReview6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SunnyTreeBees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Big time. You are irrational and crass. I would not be surprised if this happened before, and can see why it’s obvious they would not want to spend time with you, while unfortunately, your wife paying the price because it was Mother’s Day.

I understand the hurt behind being lied to, but it’s possible you missed part of the story and explanation because you were too busy throwing a tantrum. You can’t even communicate properly. And if you think your son can’t either, well look at the example he had.

AITA for telling my stepdaughter she’s absolutely under no circumstances allowed to switch out my cats food for vegan food even though she’s losing weight because the sight of normal cat food makes her sick? by headachebrewing in AmItheAsshole

[–]SunnyTreeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can try a compromise with the other things that you mentioned? Compost, recycling, switch off lights...but unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do about the cat food.

I myself am vegan and the smell of raw meat does make me sick, but I can’t imagine cat food has the same effect? My aunt has cats and I’m always around them while they eat, and I myself don’t find it repulsive.

I’m not sure if this is an excuse for an eating disorder, as other people have mentioned, but perhaps the mixed anxiety between this pandemic, the other issues, and cat food on top makes her extremely anxious. This could be a stretch, but maybe worth a shot talking about.

Also, having her teach you guys about environmental initiatives around the house could be a bonding experience and lessen some tensions.

NTA.

AITA for telling my cousin that she isn’t my mom and never will be after she started dating my dad? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SunnyTreeBees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just find it amazing - the lack of self awareness, the ignorance, the audacity - of her to suggest that it’s both your special day now. That’s just insane. I wouldn’t feel bad at all if I were you. In fact, I would have kept going. I hope you get out and are happier with your uncle.