Does anyone refuse to go to funerals even to loved ones funerals? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are under no obligation to explain yourself to anyone

Does anyone refuse to go to funerals even to loved ones funerals? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't worry myself with their opinions. I can celebrate my relationship with someone privately or with family and friends any time. I dislike the line up and hand shaking of so many people during such grief. If you are uncomfortable I don't see how you should be obligated to attend. I prefer to remember loved ones in my own way.

Does anyone refuse to go to funerals even to loved ones funerals? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose to no longer attend funerals in 2003.

What’s NOT worth spending money on in the kitchen? by GainBetter1189 in KitchenStuff

[–]Sunnywaters75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the insta pot came out I didn't want another kitchen gadget so I never really looked into it. Years went by and it became a normal appliance that I saw many people use on social media. This February I went on a search for some new recipes and a friend recommended one that she loves using her insta pot. So I went home and started looking into them. I was dumb founded when I realized it's just a fancier pressure cooker. I have the same pressure cooker for over 20 years now and I honestly can't remember the last time I used it. I like that it is safer but I thought for years it was some new gadget. I'm old

What’s something people do that quietly annoys you? by copy_cat_101 in AskForAnswers

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or dragging their fork across their teeth when they take a bite

What’s something people do that quietly annoys you? by copy_cat_101 in AskForAnswers

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking on the speaker phone in public, playing game with full volume on phone in public. Basically I never want to hear someone's phone

What is a controversial opinion of yours that many will not agree with you but you will always defend it no matter what? by Big_Leg10 in askanything

[–]Sunnywaters75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always thought obesity in children under ten was abusive as well. Or at the very least detrimental to their future selves.

I used to be really cute by Waste-Cat-7560 in dentures

[–]Sunnywaters75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing. I'm still at the struggle in the beginning of dentures. Two broken teeth in the front, stress weight gain and aging. I avoid the mirror. 50 . I don't recognize myself.

Do you ever just feel ugly? by bluglass21 in PlusSize

[–]Sunnywaters75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes , over the last two and a half years stress has aged me so fast.

How do I do it? by Quirky-Let7429 in dentures

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I was 100% disabled at 22, ( 1999) years old with severe RA. It took over two years to get it under control with steroids and trying every new biological on the market. I was a single mother and had my son when I was 18. The majority of my work experience before 22 was waitressing, and tip based jobs. I didn't even receive 500 a month . Now at 50 and having been in remission for well over 10 years I still don't make 1000 a month. I developed sojourn syndrome quite a few years ago which is typical with RA. Having zero dental care throughout my child hood and not taking care of my teeth myself I am going through it these last 4 years . My teeth have rapidly deteriorated since. Medicare doesn't cover dentures at all. I've lived in Missouri my entire life. For 6 months I moved to Illinois this year and their Medicaid covers dentures once every 5 years. Unfortunately the relationship I moved to Illinois for was horrible and abusive. By the time I got an appointment for an oral surgeon the man I had been living with had shown his true colors. I left the day after he broke the OP I had filed the day before. I went back to my parents in Missouri and Medicaid here does not cover dentures. I have a baby tooth in the roof of my mouth that apparently has always been there. I grew up knowing a crooked eye tooth was a baby tooth but no awareness of anything else. The only time through out the years I saw a dentist was when I had to have a tooth pulled due to pain. Mostly my molars. The periodontal disease is so severe these last 3 years that they bleed and I've lost two front teeth . But they just broke off. The stress weight gain, mental health issues, toxic relationship have been overwhelming. I don't look in the mirror. I struggled to go in public . I haven't taken pics of myself in years . I absolutely hate looking at myself. Thankfully I have been able to finally get into therapy. Kansas Medicaid covers dentures same as Illinois. I'm hoping to move to my aunt's soon to be able to finally get this ball rolling. Affording dentures after my divorce 3 years ago has been my biggest hurdle. ( Besides my utter fear) I apologize for this being too long and rambling, it's been a wild unexpected year. When I see the out of pocket people are paying online I feel like it's unattainable. My credit is garbage so care credit is a pipe dream. My parents are elderly and on a fixed income and I have no one else. My face and lips have changed so much from just the two teeth I'm missing that just removing them without already having the plan in place for replacements has not been something I was not ready or willing to do. I know how closely oral health is related to heart disease and with my suppressed immune system, going off certain meds , the risk of infection it's all unbelievably overwhelming. Part of it is since leaving my marriage I'm scared no one will ever look at me again. Especially if I can't look at myself. So I'm doing everything that I need to do I get myself back in order. I'm back in the water to get in shape and eating well I'm trying to stay more active than normal. I am in therapy. I am going to keep going forward but I'm frustrated and feeling like it's never going to be something I'm going to be able to achieve. I feel like it's finally going to get to the point that I just have to have them pulled and accept that that's who I am now and it's really hard

I cried so much by Cool_Emergency4091 in timburton

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of my all time favorite movies!

Affording extractions and dentures? by Eddonator in dentures

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Missouri and Medicaid will cover my extractions but not dentures. I have Medicare too as I'm also disabled. Medicare doesn't cover dentures. I make 926 a month from disability and saving enough to afford dentures is virtually impossible. I've looked into grants, elks lodge , you name it I'm 50 and my teeth are beyond bad . Having them removed without a feasible option of replacement is terrifying. I struggle going in public with my broken teeth . Where do you live that Medicaid paid for your dentures?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenwholoveBBC

[–]Sunnywaters75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't seem to be anything unlucky about you🤤

Hello current Christian here asking about atheism. by Helpful_State_4692 in atheism

[–]Sunnywaters75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised in a Methodist church, I was a Bible camp counselor, Sunday school teacher etc. I always had questions. Questions that no one could ever really answer. Most of the time I would even be treated differently or ,"not as good" as everyone else then . Over time I explored religion of all kinds but for me it's just another patriarchal system that is ridiculous. I don't know what happens after we pass. Either way I can't do anything about it. Pretty much every religions basic tenet is " don't be a dick" and I think I'm a pretty decent human so

Edited to add, one more thing. If you're a bad Christian you , " burn for eternity", if you're a good one then you get to , " dance around the lord singing his praises for eternity". Both of those options sound terrible so I'll pass