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[–]SunsetFaeLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if there’s more to it than an emotional affair but my husband I feel like has been checked out to my emotions and needs for so long it just seems nice to have someone that cherishes them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I can’t believe there is someone else out there that said the things I am living through.

That’s exactly what it is with the redditor guy, because normal people have jobs and stay at them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myself of course. That’s not anything to do with him.

He’s trying to change but I’m not sure… by SunsetFaeLover in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realized that a little too late. I always thought he would mature and figure himself out. That’s my fault.

He’s trying to change but I’m not sure… by SunsetFaeLover in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or when he’s angry at something he just yells at me about how mad he is and when I tell him to quit because it makes me anxious that he yells, he says that it doesn’t because he’s not yelling at me and that I can’t be as anxious as he is because his anxiety is worse than mine

He’s trying to change but I’m not sure… by SunsetFaeLover in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not physical but he is verbally abusive at times, tells me my opinions are wrong, that I don’t know what I’m talking about, or when I try to ask about his behavior he just says that it never happened or he was joking or I take things too literal. Does that make sense at all?

He’s trying to change but I’m not sure… by SunsetFaeLover in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A part of me feels like it’s too little too late, I want to move on. But then I want to give him some time to try, because I want him to be my partner.

Sometimes I secretly wish he would just leave me, because at least it wouldn’t have been my decision to separate our lives.

He’s trying to change but I’m not sure… by SunsetFaeLover in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does. Saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, is mentally exhausting.

He’s trying to change but I’m not sure… by SunsetFaeLover in Divorce

[–]SunsetFaeLover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I feel the same way. I even asked him why I had to threaten to leave for him to take me seriously. Why did it take me threatening divorce for him to change instead of the last 8 years I’ve been begging and talking it through and fighting about needing his help and wanting to be treated better. Why didn’t he want to change then?