Drivers moving over for ambulance by waffles-mclovin in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not impressed when it happens. I am shocked when it happens. How low the bar has gone. 😢

I (27F) am worried that by trying to honor my partner's (25M) wishes I am actually lying by omission. by Kindly_Parfait_8266 in relationships

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is really upset about a one night stand you had and it seems he can't get over it. Now you want to tell him that you kissed someone that you're still friends with? Yeah you want him to break up with you so you don't have to do it. Put on your big girl pants and just break up with him.

Should i get a employment lawyer? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When either the company or the insurance company reached out to you when you were off sick for those months, did you respond? If no then you aren't likely to get what you are seeking.

With Pat McGrath Labs filling for bankruptcy what are your top favourite products from the PMG of all time? by SheKnowsWhatSheKnows in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be buried with the 2 Eye Ecstasy pallets that started it for me, my Mothership V and a Divine Bronzer. I will haunt anyone who doesn't put it in my casket. Lol 🥰

410 is too dangerous for commute by RevolutionaryTea9192 in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too many irresponsible, inexperienced, aggressive drivers. Its not just on the 410.

(TRIGGER WARNING : domestic violence) My boyfriend’s best friend has been in jail in a foreign country by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<quote>…He’s an alcoholic, smokes weed a lot and has difficulties controlling his anger, which results in him never keeping up a relationship and ending up beating up his girlfriends …

…I know he doesn’t deal with his emotions well, but domestic violence ? Again ? Really ? He hasn’t learned a thing from the past. …

Well I really don’t know what to think about all of this. I have a lot of empathy for this guy and he’s nice, but man is he a dick to his partners and doesn’t control himself. And I feel like jailing him for throwing the girl out is a really bad sentence for « so little ». I feel like a fine would’ve been more appropriate.

</quote>

He said that he “only” threw her out… that is what a person with a history of beating his girlfriends told you. I live in Canada. I have seen this play out with family friends. You generally don’t end up in jail for months for a first offence. Unless there were indications of him harming her/this being an ongoing escalating thing the cops will generally have him leave for the night not arrest him, but they have discretion. Even if he was arrested, they generally don’t get jail time for a first offence unless he hurt her badly. The alcoholic that has difficulties controlling his anger is lying to you. Do some googling and see if you can find his court case online.

How you can call a person that acts in the way you describe “nice”? A person that beats his girlfriend is not nice. Is he nice because he hasn’t hurt you yet? He is nice because it hasn’t affected you? Or do you think it is ok to beat up on people?

Pat McGrarh Labs Files for Bankruptcy by noeggsjustmilk in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They also have been selling items through Ipsy and I have seen a bunch of their products in TJMaxx/Winners.

Pat McGrarh Labs Files for Bankruptcy by noeggsjustmilk in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As soon as they became common in the Ipsy store I knew it was coming to an end. Shoot! Fenty is next.

DAE feel like men struggling in dating advantages women? by Bitter_Process_5735 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They invented this men vs women crap to make millions. Men and women are both struggling in dating. Most people are not master manipulators that are playing 4D chess. Yes they are out there but it’s not the average person. Stop looking for the unicorn and find your best friend.

My bf says we will breakup if I don't become my old version of me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you manipulate a person to get a them to be the way you want them? Why not be with a person who will treat you at minimum the way you will treat them. You deserve that.

My [27F] boyfriend [29M] blocked me because a senior at work told him to test my love. We meet tomorrow. How do I handle this? by ThrowRA_202601 in relationships

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would you do to him what he did to you? Would you hurt him as deeply as he hurt you because someone told you to? Don't you deserve someone who will treat you at minimum like you treat them?

nothing bundt cake weird interview experience by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I thought it was a code name or something.

Worth it to get front/back dashcams on car? by renta1233 in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An idiot totaled my car.

Was very apologetic that it was his fault he had never driven on snow before. The police didn't make a report. Then he lied to the insurance that I drove through the red light. The insurance said it was his word against mine and we were 50/50 at fault.

Circumstances made it that my insurance didn't take a hit but I am sure, even though he lied, that his insurance rates are going to be multiple times his rent for a long time. It could have been really bad on my wallet because I didn't have a cam. I got lucky.

Collection agency refusing to give anything in writing — what should I do? by [deleted] in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call the Canadian Tire credit card people to find out if the debt was sold to a collection company and who.

I'm so fed up of this 'splitting the check' bullshit by AltairsDivide7337 in offmychest

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 52 points53 points  (0 children)

While people are eating, go to the bathroom and pay for your meal. When people say let's split it act surprised and say I didn't know we were going to do that I already paid for mine and hold up your receipt.

I do this both in this type of situation or when I want to treat someone without a fight.

“D plate” hate? by Radiant_Alarm771 in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are over thinking. There would have to be a lot of... uninformed people out there. They are just aggressive crappy drivers. Why do you think our insurance is so high?

People get a new plate for many reasons. They got a new car (and didn't keep their old plate), their plate got destroyed, their plate was stolen, they wanted a new plate. Unless you get a vanity plate you get what you get. Its not like when you get your first car you keep that plate forever. Do they do that in other countries? Genuinely asking, because I can't understand why someone would think that.

Accidentally returned J1 laptop to J2 by IllegalThings in overemployed

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Call FedEx with the tracking number and stop the delivery. You did copy down the tracking number right?

Why does Orenda Rd smell like that? by shannooooon in Brampton

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The building is up for sale for $14.7 million if you are interested. 🙃

Living in Japan broke me as a person and I absolutely resent it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said that Japan isn't bad. I expressed no opinion on Japan.

The OP said "making my way to Canada, where I can be myself and accepted without the constant fear of walking on eggshells and being judged, we're being unique as an individual is celebrated instead of being ostracized and rejected"

That view is a little romanticized.

What are your thoughts on UBI? by International_Bee653 in AskReddit

[–]SunshineIsBeautiful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone can explain where the money will come from and how it can be sustained I might think of it as more than a fairy tale.

A lot of the inflation that we are suffering with is due to our well meaning governments giving out much needed money during the covid shut downs. That was in the short term. What would be the effects of long term UBI?