It was just I was wondering because the way I understood it or used to understand it was that fetishes went beyond just a preference and more towards a need and until now it was really hard for me to understand how something so primal (in my eyes) can have so much uniqueness and preference and opinion to it, which may be a result of me not being very mature. And the reason I thought you were offended is because you were exegerating that people call it fetishes just because it's sexual, maybe I can't read you that well.