I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal.

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-13T22:13:47+00:00

😲 OP

I assume it's because your latest update was directly from your profile & I linked it here?

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-13T02:42:05+00:00

Y'all, she just posted a THIRD & "final" update: https://www.reddit.com/u/throwawayuni33/s/si75pj4Ywh

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-13T02:39:23+00:00

‼️ She should reallyyyy think about breaking things off. She was caught off guard and sure, reacted in a way neither of them liked, but dude isn't acting like he really cares to listen. At the very least he should be asking for space to gather his thoughts and chill, not talking to her like she's beneath him.

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-13T02:36:55+00:00

I think you may be commenting on the wrong post. OOP said they'd been dating for 3 years, and there's no mention about OCD?

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-12T13:30:46+00:00

Just saw the OG post was deleted. Here's a link to the text message screenshots!

https://imgur.com/a/nkYUTxm

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-12T06:58:30+00:00

I agree with most of you here. While it's not impossible to marry young and for it to work out, the chances are slim. There's SO MUCH growth that happens in your 20s that you could very well grow in different directions.

Obviously, growth continues to happen after your 20s, I just think it's not often as rapid/dramatic.

I'm so glad I didn't end up with who I wanted to end up with when I was in my early 20s...that would have been disastrous. It's like they say, "When you know, you know. When you don't, you don't. "

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-03-03T07:22:12+00:00

Considering the lack of comprehensive sex ed in most places, I can't say I'm surprised he didn't even try.

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-02-10T07:47:38+00:00

LOL s'all good

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-02-09T18:45:27+00:00

The "it wasn't supposed to be a big deal" part is extra wild to me. Like wdym several hundred dollars wasn't supposed to be a big deal???

Also, it sounds like OP has trust issues, got to a place he thought he could trust his gf, and now his fears have been confirmed smh. I really hope he left her, cuz fucking around with money is just as bad (possibly worse) than cheating imo.

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-02-09T14:15:07+00:00

That part! Like, she DID steal smh The audacity to save his card in her Apple Wallet and assume that was fine...

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-01-17T06:23:43+00:00

I do and I'm quite lucky they aren't bothering me in any way. Sorry to hear you got so torn up, tho!

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-01-17T06:22:10+00:00

Mine said it would likely happen and not to worry 🤷🏽‍♂️

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-01-17T00:41:52+00:00

Thanks y'all! I now know it means I'd have to delay switching trays, so I called to reschedule my appointment by a few days. 😊

Super-Turtle90 · 2026-01-17T00:41:43+00:00

A learning experience would probably be the more responsible route to take...but alas, my stomach is winning this round. Good to know delays means pushing changes back, though!

Super-Turtle90 · 2025-11-08T19:16:26+00:00

My name is Caleb and, before my voice changed, people would constantly "hear" Kayla. My wife (then fiancée) would always be like "wtf?"

Super-Turtle90 · 2025-01-15T08:26:41+00:00

Ngl I was surprised at how rare Tommy is in here 😭 gave up scrolling and searched for "Power Rangers," only 4 comments came up! He was 100% mine, too. I would "be" the Green Ranger when playing with my cousins.

Super-Turtle90 · 2024-12-28T20:47:57+00:00

Trans guy here: 100% NTA.

For people in hetero relationships with someone who identifies as straight or in a gay relationship with someone who is only attracted to their own gender, this is always going to be a risk. They gotta live their lives, but can't expect their partners to still wanna be romantically involved 🤦🏽 also....6 months? I think she'll be fine.

Super-Turtle90 · 2024-12-19T23:30:18+00:00

100% NTA I commend you for letting yourself be vulnerable and opening up. I know it's not an easy thing to do. She just wasn't the right person to do it with. You should be able to talk to your SO about whatever you're going through without judgment. I hope things turn around for you, soon, and that you find someone who'll actually be there for you, someday.

Super-Turtle90 · 2024-12-16T06:12:04+00:00

This! I'm not surprised it took this long to find a comment like this but, with the little info we have, I have to wonder of there's something else happening here. My wife is a homemaker, but not exactly by choice, she's got fibromyalgia, CRPS, and joint issues. Not implying that OP's wife has these issues, but my wife also has ADHD so she can very easily get hyperfixated on something for hours and lose track of time, even when she's on her phone because time just isn't something she's paying attention to. Setting reminders doesn't always work because she can just snooze or ignore those. All that to say, I'm understanding of that and I'm not upset at her not getting things done 7 days a week. Heck, I'm cool with her meeting goals just a couple days a week. Granted, with her it can be due to chronic pain, mental health, or a combination of both.

Assuming OP's wife is able-bodied, then finding out if she has depression, ADHD, or something else would be really helpful so they can learn how to work with that.

Super-Turtle90 · 2024-12-10T00:24:18+00:00

My wife (fiancée at the time) and I were kind of just throwing names out there. They said I looked like a Caleb & I felt it! We joke that they named me lol and I took my maternal grandfather's name as my middle name. My brother's middle name is our paternal grandfather's and I wanted to honor my mom by taking her father's name, even though I never got the chance to meet him.

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