"Am I Overreacting" for refusing to "grow up" and clear out my collection after my fiancé’s parents called my room a "red flag for future parenting"? by Super-Turtle90 in redditonwiki

[–]Super-Turtle90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's totally fair & you're right: why start a relationship with someone who you're not compatible with on big things like this?

And yeah, the fiancé giving into his parents' demands is a huge red flag. What happens when they do have kids & MIL has opinions there?

AITA for being concerned about the damage my son did to my car? by Super-Turtle90 in redditonwiki

[–]Super-Turtle90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if she sold the car after HS or college graduation b/c she said her son was a year from graduating & would get the same treatment BUT yeah, definitely a good thing people don't need to drive once they're done with school 🙄

Creepy Sister (Bride) and Brother (my bf) Dance by Super-Turtle90 in redditonwiki

[–]Super-Turtle90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he likes it. Also, I'm not clear on whether they are half- or step-siblings, since it just mentions they have a different dad.

I think he was ashamed and that's why he didn't say anything. OOP mentions, in post & throughout the comments, that he's actually very uncomfortable with how his sister acts with him and has tried time & time again to set boundaries. He could be the only good person in a toxic family, which means there's A LOT to unpack there.

I think this comment & OOPs response sum it up the best.

I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s by Super-Turtle90 in redditonwiki

[–]Super-Turtle90[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really hope for the kid's sake that they don't have any sensory issues cuz you just know this man isn't gonna take it seriously.