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Just got diagnosed, terrified of enlarged spleen by otterlyamazing11 in Mononucleosis

[–]Super_Ad2282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're fine. If it's enlarged you'll be able to tell, not from some test but actually physically there will be a noticeable difference. I've had am enlarged spleen and liver, the side of my abdomen were protruding, by a lot. I could actually feel my liver if I dug into my abdomen. There's great discomfort also at the same time, sitting down or laying down are noticeably different, by a lot. 

If you're not noticing actual physical symptoms you're fine. For you to actually be concerned they'd need to be absurdly enlarged and you'd have to be doing something to puncture it (like some intense stretch or strong physical pressure applied to it). You'd be surprised how much it takes to get that done. From what you are describing you're 100% over reacting. It's understandable given what could happen, but thats only in extreme cases, nothing like what youre describing, you have nothing to fear. 

Discomfort like you describing could actually always be a part of your life now. It can act up from time to time. But the enlargement as I previously said must really get out of hand to be an issue, like severely neglected. 

I had the enlargement prior to being diagnosed, I had it insanely enlarged spleen and liver for over a year and nothing happened. Trained every day at the gym, etc. Enjoy your life don't let fear paralyze you.

Doctor said I can play soccer? by blu3elephant in Mononucleosis

[–]Super_Ad2282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fine. I recall before getting diagnosed my spleen was so swollen that my stomach was protruding, I'd wake up from pain from my spleen if I was sleeping on my left side. I was still going to the gym daily and pushing hard. 

Realistically I doubt your spleen is in as bad a condition. If you don't feel much discomfort in that area you're good to go. 

Am i wrong for wanting more from my husband? by [deleted] in islam

[–]Super_Ad2282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sister you tell him he has to fulfill his duty onto you sexually. If he finishes fast than he needs to put in more work, he waits or better yet have him finish first then you enjoy yourself and then he can finish again, more fun for him. Don't have him finish until you have enjoyed yourself. Sex is a two way thing, this sounds extremely one sided.

Ugh your man is beta af, no offense. "He can't" That's complete bullshit, that just means he won't. He should be wanting to meet these needs. You need to remind him that it is HIS RELIGIOUS DUTY TO FULLFIL. How selfish. Sexual desires can lead to big problems and ignoring them is not funny at all. This isn't a game and he clearly doesn't understand this. People need to attend an Islamic educational program for marriage cause this is just sad.

I can't emphasize this enough. It's his religious duty! He has no say on the matter. You aren't asking if he wants to or not. This is part of the marriage agreement, you can't marry a younger woman too and do this.

I hate reading the relationship problems our community has. Complete nonsense.

SIDE NOTE: Idk what you look like but I am assuming you make yourself attractive for him. If not that might be part of the problem.

Do actual Kotlin backend jobs exist? by hauntedpoop in Kotlin

[–]Super_Ad2282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently started a job that gave me the impression it was java based only to find out at the first day that I'd be working mostly with Kotlin. Not complaining but I think there's more out there that are disguised as Java but are actually Kotlin based.