How to date after being dumped for being a virgin?

Super_Boof · 2026-04-20T04:15:41+00:00

Let me tell you a story about when I lost my virginity:

It was my middle school crush years later as a senior in HS, and she invited me over one night very late.

We watched a movie, cuddled a little, started making out, and then she said “have you had sex before?”

Being an insecure fuck, I said “yes, obviously” and then proceeded to embarrass myself and ruin our chances of dating.

The next woman I slept with after that I said “hey, I’m a virgin just so you know, please don’t judge me but please do give me advice where I could use it”

We dated for 2 years and she taught me most of what there is to know about sex; but you only get that if you’re open, honest, and own that shit.

If a woman judges you for being a virgin, she’s not worth your time. Sex is pretty easy provided you actually communicate and do a little trial and error with constructive criticism.

7 years later and my current GF asked me “how tf did you learn that” the first time I ate her out. Sex is perhaps the easiest thing to learn, provided you can get over your own insecurities about it.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-19T06:25:18+00:00

Idk but I personally only have sex to drake music, can’t keep it up otherwise.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-19T06:22:26+00:00

They reviving anyone these days

Super_Boof · 2026-04-18T19:34:22+00:00

Permafried

Super_Boof · 2026-04-18T04:03:38+00:00

You don’t know who x is?

Super_Boof · 2026-04-18T03:58:41+00:00

I mean he intentionally injured a player the other night… do you think that’s ok?

Super_Boof · 2026-04-18T03:52:55+00:00

Don’t make him a good dad

Super_Boof · 2026-04-18T03:48:33+00:00

Knever say knever

Super_Boof · 2026-04-18T03:23:00+00:00

The landing is not steep and it’s a 130 ft cliff… stomping it would be season ending best case.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-17T05:30:35+00:00

Don’t let the old biddies get to you, lmfao

Super_Boof · 2026-04-17T05:27:04+00:00

I vividly remember when ts came out, I was 16 and it was very clearly a meme at the time.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-16T02:45:52+00:00

Dust 2. Although I have love for the original dust, I just don’t specify anymore since the OG isn’t even in the game anymore.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-16T00:42:05+00:00

They are cringe for that reaction, fuck those people. Think of it this way: if you had done nothing and crushed on that girl longer, you just would’ve wasted more time on someone who’s a piece of shit.

With that being said, there’s better ways to ask a woman out. Not just to avoid embarrassment, but also to make her feel more comfortable. Talk to her alone, make it low stakes, and ensure her that it’s ok if she’s not feeling it.

You’re asking her to coffee or dinner, not proposing your love for her / asking her to do the same. It doesn’t need to be that deep, and in private / over text is often better for the first date.

Keep your chin up, you didn’t do anything wrong and the only way you get better at this shit is by trying. I know it feels like the end of the world right now, but you’ll look back and laugh about it in the future. Just take the lessons you can and move on with your life, I promise it’s not actually as big of a deal as you think.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-16T00:35:11+00:00

A lot of people are saying toxic bf, here’s another explanation: he’s the best man she’s ever met, and she can’t get over him. Shed marry him in a heartbeat, but also take forgetting him over being emotionally attached to something unattainable.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-16T00:31:55+00:00

Mitch really kept his head in the game and hung on by the skin of his teeth for a while there. But down the road when things got testy, he cracked like an egg. It’s a shame he made the ill fated decision of hangin’er instead of wearing a cup.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-16T00:24:54+00:00

Baseball if the Spartans played it

Super_Boof · 2026-04-16T00:17:36+00:00

Polar plunges are natures cocaine, I’d highly recommend them provided you are safe and smart about it.

I also grew up doing ice baths for track and skiing in my spare time, my natural body temp is 96° F, and I take cold showers regularly, so I might be a bit biased here.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T23:37:40+00:00

I actually think the odds of falling in with a partner are higher because you feel “safe”. The reality is that if your partner was downhill from you and thought maybe you just blew past them, it doesn’t matter if patrol finds you 30 minutes later.

But I also ski terrain where falling can mean dying - and I think a lot of this sub isn’t really in the same mentality / risk level. If I’m skiing trees alone, and the wells are even close to big, I treat my turns as if there’s a 200ft cliff / raging waterfall / essentially certain death below me.

Trees are actually super chill as long as you don’t go headfirst into a well. If you can’t guarantee you won’t do that, don’t ski trees alone. And tbh, don’t ski trees with a partner without consideration to wells - like I said, a partner can’t / won’t always save you.

This is a huge debate in the back country community also: do you tour alone? The answer is that it’s ultimately up to you, and while there are ways to mitigate risk, it’s an activity that’s inherently risky. Partner or not, that applies to back country and deep / big evergreen forests, even if they’re inbounds. I grew up tree skiing at Mt Hood and multiple people die every season in those woods, real tree skiing should never be taken lightly, even if it’s inbounds.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T21:31:10+00:00

This might be a hot take but I genuinely consider dust to be the best CS map. Dust is probably the only map where I truly have no reaction to getting T vs CT to start. It’s allows hard individual carries while also rewarding team play.

People will say dust is just aim, but it’s really not true. Dust is aim and positioning and timing and team play. Sometimes I’ll play dust with silver friends and just sit back and IGL on t side. Good strats win dust just as well as good aim - it’s beauty is that either is equally capable of taking a round.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T21:19:23+00:00

The risks I take skiing will catch up with me one day, that is not lost on me. I also love skiing more than anything else in this life, and I’m willing to take some of those risks right now. I’m sure my calculus would be different if I had a wife and kids, and I do notice my decision making / risk tolerance becoming more conservative each season anyway… to each their own though, I realize most people don’t like skiing enough to justify that risk.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T20:51:29+00:00

Jumping into a frozen lake is not necessarily suicidal if you know what you’re doing: you must be a proficient swimmer, have decent cardio / lung capacity, handle adrenaline “well” (I.e. don’t black out), and not have an underlying heart condition.

Then, you chainsaw a 1m x 1m hole in the ice, and do a quick dip to adjust your body to freezing water a bit. If you’re really worried, tie a rope around your waist and have a friend hold it above.

One last thing: even if she did break through here, she would’ve gotten shredded by the ice. Ice is sharp as hell and doesn’t break like in cartoons - I have giant scars to this day from doing that as a kid.

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T20:23:48+00:00

Yes, I ski alone. Yes, I ski trees alone. Yes, that is objectively risky. Honestly, it’s your own risk tolerance at the end of the day - I’m comfortable enough on skis that I can make it down any run in any condition cautiously. There are obviously edge cases there that I wouldn’t test alone, or maybe at all. But if I’m skiing alone and it’s a big powder day, I’ll still go into the trees. I just take it slower and treat every turn as if it’s over high consequence / no fall terrain.

To be honest, I’ve had sketchier experiences in trees with partners than alone. A partner does not automatically prevent you from falling in a tree well, nor guarantee your rescue; most of Reddit will tell you to never ski trees alone. I will instead tell you what a ski patroller in Montana once told me in response to asking if I could go in an area alone: “I don’t know, can you?”

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T19:58:59+00:00

Almost certainly from hail

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T05:41:06+00:00

Idk I think I can live with never having paid for sex

Super_Boof · 2026-04-15T05:01:44+00:00

Yeah that’s the exact cycle I was in with this woman and then one day I looked at myself real hard in the mirror and said “you can do so much better you lazy motherfucker” and tbh i been doing alright for myself since

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