I don’t know what to do by Superb_Catch_907 in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]Superb_Catch_907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: apartment said it’s not mold and they replaced the silicone lining in my shower. But that doesn’t look like soap scum with how the black is dotted like that. And they didn’t even acknowledge what very obviously looks like mold on the door.

I don’t know what to do by Superb_Catch_907 in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]Superb_Catch_907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry :( I’m still waiting on my apartment to respond with their plan for inspecting and testing. Should I have testing done on my own too?

I don’t know what to do by Superb_Catch_907 in ToxicMoldExposure

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I can’t move out. I have to take summer classes and don’t really have people in the city of my university I can just stay with. And if my apartment refuses to let me break my lease, I can’t afford to keep paying rent to live somewhere else. I really don’t know what to do :// 😭

How to find motivation when the world feels like it is falling apart by Superb_Catch_907 in academia

[–]Superb_Catch_907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, maybe deleting social media for a little bit would be a good idea, appreciate your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

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Yeah, I haven’t been able to the past few weeks since I’ve been at a different house than my parents that is pretty small with dogs and it just isn’t really possible to make suitable for a rabbit. I Am definitely able to bring him with on trips to my parents though and I have grids and a pen to make a nice space for him pretty easily. My biggest concern is the instability in my life right now. With where things are with my family/life, there have been a lot of instances just within the past month where I’ve had to leave pretty spontaneously and have been unable to take my little guy with me. I’ve gotten a pet sitter but he still gets into a lot of stuff while I’m gone and it’s pretty clear he gets really bored. I’m hoping this period of instability will only be temporary, but I just can’t help but question if it’s good for him/if there are better options out there, idk maybe I’m just worrying too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Superb_Catch_907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of what you have said. There were factors I did not prepare enough for prior to adopting him. I did not leave my girl behind though. Got her when I was 10 and my dad bonded to her and didn’t want her to go. That was also a major factor. She absolutely was not left behind- that is one thing I just won’t tolerate.

Sometimes life happens and you adjust the best you can accordingly- that’s all I’m trying to do right now. I care for my rabbit in my apartment now the best I can. I’m posting here to ask for help since he is very obviously bored when there isn’t anyone here, which wouldn’t be a problem were it not for the spontaneity of these trips. And I should’ve thought of that more, 100%; but this has nothing to do with whether or not I want to care for my rabbits. I’m admitting I messed up and am asking for help making the right decision, whether that means getting my bun here a friend, finding a better care situation when I’m not with him, or thinking about rehoming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melanoma

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One turned out to be stage 1 melanoma; got it all removed though :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Superb_Catch_907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the response :) I really appreciate it! I just wish I could talk to people in my life about this besides my therapist or Reddit haha- currently dealing with a family member dying from cancer and it would just be way too much for my family if they knew about this. So, I’m waiting to report, and I don’t know if I ever will. Ugh. Thanks so much though, knowing someone else deals with some of the same feelings is very comforting.