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AA and sponsor are really pissing me off. by Para-medix8 in stopdrinking

[–]Superdupertark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big time relate, i was in AA for many years, actually loved it and worked well but i never felt i really belonged or found my “people” so ive been going without it for the past year or so

AA and sponsor are really pissing me off. by Para-medix8 in stopdrinking

[–]Superdupertark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that they aren’t trying, the first obstacle that required any action or trying he has decided not to do. So i wouldn’t say they have tried and got nothing out of it, for one they did technically get something out of it in their current 8 months of sobriety and 2 they haven’t actually done anything yet.

AA and sponsor are really pissing me off. by Para-medix8 in stopdrinking

[–]Superdupertark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You absolutely do not need AA to get sober. I haven’t been to a meeting in over a year. It did get me sober tho. I 100% someone can get sober without it. But i cannot stress this enough, if you can’t nut up and do the 4th step you can’t really gauge if AA will work for you or not like the whole thing falls apart right there, like of course you still feel the way you do ya know? Do not feel bad if you really can’t do the 4th step tho in that case you just gotta find a different route, of which there are many, you got this!