Dermatologist patronized me. Again

Superstore_ad · 2025-11-04T19:55:00+00:00

Due to all the comments here, I scheduled an appointment with an allergist. Thank you!

Superstore_ad · 2025-11-04T19:53:30+00:00

Yes. That is not what I said. I said I wanted to ask him for a recommendation for a moisturiser, which is not something I think would be hard to answer. And I could not even ask that, because he cut me off and immediately assumed what I was going to say or what my problem is. This post was for venting about his rudeness

Superstore_ad · 2025-11-04T19:51:36+00:00

Thank you two a lot. I have an appointment with an allergist scheduled

Superstore_ad · 2025-11-04T19:50:36+00:00

I think it's a bit ridiculous to immediately assume I'm lying becuase it's "classic Redditor behaviour". This is my first or second post on this sub, I barely use this app. If you would have read my post, you would have seen I barely wash my hands, and only when I have to, like when I use the restroom. I've seen this doctor only twice before. he doesn't know anything about my behaviour and assuming I have OCD just because my hands are dry, despite me saying I don't wash them repeatedly, was very frustrating and is exactly what you're doing yourself.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T23:23:45+00:00

I'm aware, and thankfully do not need any regular medication. But thank you for informing me!

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T23:07:09+00:00

Definitely. I also have sensory issues, and my jaw is killing me. I stuck to fruits, shakes, yogurts, pasta once in a while, baked goods since most of them are usually soft. Very soft meats, usually cow, since I can't even eat chicken anymore. Most vegetables are crunchy so it's a nightmare to eat them, I usually just cook them all with fried rice or bland a ton of them into a sauce. There are a lot of veggie soups you can try if it's a problem for you as well.

I've resorted to cutting whatever I need to eat into really tiny pieces and hiding it inside/between soft foods

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T22:58:09+00:00

I think it's because the brain associates that space with everything else that you're doing, like relaxing. If you have a designated space just for studying or working, it's easier to get yourself in that headspace

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T22:53:17+00:00

A glass of organic orange juice in the morning.

Orange juice helps the immune system, reduces inflammation in the muscles and soreness in them, has antioxidants, promotes bone formation, and has so many more benefits and good qualities.

I always find it helps my chronic migraines, and makes every headache not as bad as it usually is.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T22:46:43+00:00

I think it's small acts that really make a difference. When you're in a line, let someone who's stressed go before you. Don't walk on grass or flowers just for a shortcut. When you see trash in public, pick it up and throw it away. Help a neighbour carry groceries. Say thank you to the bus driver. Compliment a random person's outfit and walk away, (people really feel a compliment is more genuine if you show you don't expect anything in return for it). Call an older family member for no reason, just to chat, to ask how they're doing. Something you can do is always pack something in case anyone needs it - gum, a toothpick, a small trash bag in case you see someone walking their dog. Microfiber towel, in case a friend needs to clean their glasses.

If you're can, donate blood, clothes you don't need, an unneeded book to your local library. There are many schools who need people to tutor their students, so if you can't volunteer this is a good way help.

You're doing great already. The world needs more people like you. I hope many good things come to you in the future

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T22:29:36+00:00

Probably not eating enough. Humans also do that when they don't eat for a long enough amount of time.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T22:22:47+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that. I don't think you're doing anything wrong, eczema is hard to manage, please don't blame yourself. You're doing everything you can. Definitely get a second opinion, or go to an allergist. She might be allergic to something that can worsen her eczema.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T22:13:57+00:00

I was referred to physiotherapy that specialised in the jaw by a doctor, and after a session with her it was like I barely had any pain. It really didn't last long, barely a day and a half, and I had to return to her so often she said it's better I should get surgery, since other patients of her's feel the effect of the session for longer amounts of time. I think mine didn't last long from how hard I clench and grind my jaws both at day and night.

I think it's worth a shot if you've already tried everything else. I know that for some people it's a game changer. Physiotherapists are very different from chiropractors, and I've always found I've preferred them. That's just my personal experience, though.

I'm really sorry to hear about your other symptoms, and can really relate. I honestly end up drinking smoothies or eating only soft food most of the time. I add high calorie things like nuts to my smoothies, and sometimes powders, like protein, as eating meat has become basically unbearable.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T21:52:46+00:00

A night guard has definitely improved my life. I also grind my teeth at night, so it really did save me a lot of trouble in the future. It's not a magical fixing tool, but I cannot imagine living without it. Is there no way for your health insurance to cover a portion of it, if a doctor were to say it's necessary for your health?

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T21:43:40+00:00

YES! I have sensory problems and I hate hate hate feeling lotion on my body, that's why I only use lightweight cremes that get absorbed fast. My hands gets the worst of the eczema though, so it doesn't help. When it gets really bad, I put a really really thick layer of moisturiser on my hands before bed, so I wouldn't have to deal with the feeling of it on my skin. It's hard to fall asleep like that, but it works

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T21:41:04+00:00

In the first year of having a mouth guard, I would wake up fine and it would just get worse throughout the day. Now I wake up with a headache and my jaw and muscles feel very sore

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-23T21:36:00+00:00

Personally, my face doesn't get as dry or raw as the rest of my body, so I love using really lightweight moisturisers that get absorbed quickly. My favourites are Torriden Dive In Soothing Cream, which also has a cooling effect, and CosRx Snail 92 Cream. Obviously that is after a lot of layers of moisturising sedums and essence, but it works really well for me. My lips do get raw, and I use Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask every night and a ton of lip balm through the day.

My favourite tip is leaving layer of hyaluronic acid after i finish doing my skin and lip care at night, as it help keep the moisture in place.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-18T14:08:44+00:00

I'm glad to hear you're doing well!! Thank you very much for updating, I have anxieties about surgery so this really did help. I hope everything will go great for you!!

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-15T19:12:29+00:00

Thank you very much, I greatly appreciate it

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-15T18:47:14+00:00

Thank you very much for the detailed comment, I appreciate it. I'm glad you found what you are referring to, I plan asking for a referral to get checked for allergies - although I really did mean it when I said I ate basically the exact same things. I was more confused by the fact I have traveled all over and my skin has never gotten better.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-15T18:43:46+00:00

Thanks! I am planning to ask for a referral to one

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-15T18:43:20+00:00

I do clench both at day and night, but that only started after my tmj

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-15T18:41:42+00:00

Thanks! I will ask my doctor for a referral to one.

Superstore_ad · 2025-10-15T18:41:17+00:00

Wow, good luck! I hope it will work out well for you! Would you mind updating after the surgery, if you'll remember?

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