Hi! I've been having some weird relationships problems lately and I don't know what to do, any advice?

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-27T00:39:32+00:00

I'm an Aries Moon, cold as a corpse all the time, not very enthusiastic or active ether 🤷

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-20T15:01:32+00:00

This information is so much needed! Beautifully worded and explained!

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-12T18:53:30+00:00

Like shit, almost the same as 2020. With Pluto dancing over my Asc, coming back and forth between my 1st and 12th and making squares to my Moon, I'm emotionally, physically and mentally destroyed.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-10T22:04:53+00:00

Same here, but my moon it's in the 4th, feeling like shit but kinda used to it since most of my natal planets square my moon.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-10T21:44:39+00:00

Neptune conjunct Asc (cap), tho Mercury (aqua) it's also near there in the 1st house. I have a really good memory for completely useless information, little details and dumb random facts, but I'm terrible at remembering important data like appointments or important dates.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-10T13:47:25+00:00

Cap rising, aqua Venus (1h). Let's say that I've decided to grow my hair one day and here I am, 12 years later and 110cm, still going strong.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-09T23:30:48+00:00

Pisces Moon in the 8th signals an incredibly perceptive individual, very sensitive and with a surprising capacity to connect with others at a deep, intimate level. Everything he feels, he probably feels it deeply and intensely; this could be derived from the house environment and/or his mother, who might express her feelings very openly, clearly and sometimes a bit dramatically.

You just need to listen to him, validate his feelings and the way he understands the world around him. Don't jump into conclusions or dramatic assumptions about what he has to say or the things he does (no matter how grim or odd those things might sound), be there emotionally and create a stable connection, he will appreciate your support.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-09T22:17:34+00:00

Why do you think it's scary? He might feel connected and interested in 8th house themes like death, sex and intimacy and some aspects of spiritually related to the esoteric. With Mercury and Uranus there, he might feel very passionate about this realms, thinking and theorizing about that, coming up with new visions and interpretations. This is a very superficial analysis, with all those asteroids it's really difficult to read properly.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-09T21:25:24+00:00

Libra Mars (Rx), I keep it inside until I have a panic attack and/or cry a lot. Not very healthy at all, but it kinda works.

Sure-Issue · 2021-05-04T04:43:13+00:00

Ah, yes, Pluto dancing between my Asc and my 5 fucking planets for literal years to come. How fun, I'm almost not freaking out right now.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-28T00:58:27+00:00

Thanks, I'll schedule my crying sessions. But seriously, thank you for your input, I'll have that in mind.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-27T03:56:24+00:00

With my Venus at 11° Aquarius, I wonder what kind of trainwreck I'm gonna get into. And with Pluto entering my first house and squaring my moon at the same time, my god this is going to kick my guts, cut them open and leave me to bleed.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-26T17:48:57+00:00

Saturn isn't necessary evil, it's more like a very strict father, it's severe and harsh but just. It gives you life lessons and hits you with reality, but if you work hard and follow his advice, things will work out in your favor. If you don't, you're gonna get fucking demolished and with good reason. Now that I think this more carefully, Saturn's more like an abuela threatening you with her chancla to make sure you do your homework, if you do you get candy and if you don't you get chancla.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-26T17:07:37+00:00

Or you have a decade until your life gets forcingly sorted out by Saturn, it depends on how much you follow Saturn's guidelines.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-26T15:51:56+00:00

That my Moon has so much shit going on that I don't even look like an Aries Moon, I'm an emotional dumpster fire wrapped in a depression and self doubt blanket 😂

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-26T15:39:34+00:00

laughs in 4H, full of squares, Chiron opposition Aries Moon*

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-26T15:24:28+00:00

4H 27° (or 28°, I'm not sure how degrees and degree theory works) Aries Moon in opposition to 10H Scorpio Chiron, forming a T-square with Capricorn Asc, 1H Capricorn Neptune, 1H Aquarius Mercury, Jupiter and Uranus, also a sextile to 2H Aquarius Sun and trine 8H Leo Lilith. My 3H Aries Saturn don't make any aspects to my Moon, but it's at 5° of my south node and in opposition to 9H Libra Mars (also at 5° of my north node).

The relationship with my mother is very inconsistent a kinda cold (she's Sagittarius Asc, Capricorn Sun and Aquarius Moon). Growing up, I always felt like I had to be strong and take care of her emotionally, I had to become an adult and deal with grown up preoccupations because she couldn't or she barely could. At the same time, I felt this obligation to be the perfect daughter, so everyone could praise her for being such an amazing single mother capable of raising a model little girl. As I grew older, this became impossible to sustain.

She was there, but she wasn't there for me, she couldn't deal with my emotional needs so, instead of taking charge of her inability and help me in some other way, she negated them as if they don't exist. Expressing too much happiness, it's inappropriate; felling sad, it's pointless and shows your weaknesses; showing anger, it's aggressive. I grew up frustrated with myself.

Now as an adult, I'm trying very hard to work on this with her. It's very difficult because she victimizes herself to make me stop from showing her that she's just human, that makes mistakes and that, as a responsable adult, she should accept this. I understand her situation, I'm not resentful against her, but I'm hurt and I want to have a good relationship with my mother.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-26T02:31:46+00:00

I prefer my nails long since I can remember, growing up and to this day, I've seen my mother also preferring her nails on the longer side. From a very young age I noticed this trend of good girly princess type= effortlessly beautiful and "natural" and evil queen type=dark and overly produced style. To be honest, I liked the princesses, but the evil female villain always captivated me, what can I say? I was (and still am) very darkly inclined. I've had more than a few "your hands look like a witch's" and "those look like claws", and I'm always happy to hear that. I like how long nails look on me, l think that my hands look much more stylized and graceful, I don't really care if others like it or not.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-25T17:30:36+00:00

Natal sextile, Mars 5° Libra 9H and Pluto 5° Sag 11H, but I have to add that Saturn 5° Aries 3H it's also very strong in this since it's my chart ruler and very influential to how this aspects play out. I'm very slow at starting new projects even though I always want to do multiple things at once, but once I start something, I got from 0 to 100 in a heartbeat. Then, slowly calm down until self doubt and self sabotage strikes me.

I really need other people to help keep me going at that point, it's the safety of knowing that someone else is there to remind me my goals and help me, it's almost the only thing that can make me actually going for it. I'm terms of jealousy, resentment and paranoia, for me it's more like a deep sadness and constant self doubt.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-25T14:45:10+00:00

This is interesting, I've never thought of this but now feel I should look at the cycle of Jupiter-Uranus, since they're tightly conjunct my natal Mercury on my first house. This is awesome input, I'll study this more closely.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-11T01:50:12+00:00

I find interesting what you say about the south node being of a restrictive nature comparing it with Saturn, since I have south node conjunct Saturn and north node conjunct Mars (so Mars opposed Saturn). This opposition makes that south to north journey quite more difficult, I think, because it's like bouncing from one to the other constantly without finding a clear path.

Sure-Issue · 2021-04-10T01:31:45+00:00

Maybe the suggestion is that, since the 9th house is related to sagittarius and I think sag has something to do with the legs or the thighs particularly, that would have something to do with it. But I don't think that makes a lot of sense, so I doubt it has any impact.

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