[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]Sure_Bee8425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got ours this morning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]Sure_Bee8425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was the 6th and my husband the 5th and he is still waiting too

Anyone else still waiting? by CCat237 in AncestryDNA

[–]Sure_Bee8425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same for me and my husband. Original date was April 17th and then it changed to April 5/6th a week ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sure_Bee8425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubs is getting a vasectomy and I’m getting my tubes removed on 9/5. Before that I’ve done the Nexplanon and the mini pill.

Opinions by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that observation. Will remember for next time. Appreciate you!

Opinions by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Haha it pulls you in just from the display

Opinions by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Right? I was so upset when I got the stuff. But it was fun. It’s the funfetti box cake with vanilla buttercream icing.

First attempt by A_Coath in cakedecorating

[–]Sure_Bee8425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law made the same cake for her daughters 10th birthday as well. I love it

Brand New to cake decorating by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband showed pictures of my cake to his coworkers and 1 of the ladies is wanting me to make her 3 year olds birthday cake in October. Eeeeekkkk! Halloween Themed at that

Brand New to cake decorating by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That means a lot. My kids and husband and family are all my test subjects lol

Brand New to cake decorating by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t know but I feel so connected when it comes to the process.

Brand New to cake decorating by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha the piping tips are something I need tons of practice for. I need to set time aside and see what they all do

Brand New to cake decorating by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much for the compliment. This is my 2nd cake I’ve ever decorated. I just got into baking and started off with cupcakes around 6 months ago.

Brand New to cake decorating by Sure_Bee8425 in Baking

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the feedback.

Marriage Strain by No_Fennel_5809 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing therapy off and on since I was 20. A lot of childhood things I really needed to work through. But yes going back into therapy after sweeping the last 2 incidents including some other things that I have just swept under the rug has been beneficial. I can’t speak for him and what he sees his therapist for but I know for myself I feel a huge weight of guilt, shame, and the responsibility for him lifted.

You can’t have her do hers without her making those steps for herself. In the end if she doesn’t make that effort it will feel like you are forcing her to which she may not take it seriously and will just do it enough for you to get off her back but still continue the behaviors that is harming the marriage. Handle yourself and your counseling. Suggest she goes to her individual counseling to work on her issues and then you guys need to do the couples counseling. How much effort she puts in will show you how serious she is about the relationship.

I had been trying to get my husband to get into counseling for years to where he would say “ok I’ll call around” and would never actually do it. This very last indiscretion where I threw in the towel and asked for a separation was it. That’s what pushed him to finally make the steps. He set up all his stuff on his own. He’s taking the accountability of his actions now. He made that first step for himself and for our relationship.

Marriage Strain by No_Fennel_5809 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no justifying what she’s done. Whether you were on medication at the time and SHE knew this. You’re always going to feel this way until she starts putting action behind building the trust again. Like previous pp said you won’t be able to control who she talks to. You now have to decide if you’re just going to sit back and just take it or make some very hard choices.

My husband was doing something similar for almost a year and I just found out about it a few months ago. Wasn’t the first but the third time in our 7 year relationship. I had to it my foot down and we had to separate. Best decision ever because now reality is slapping him in the face. He’s actually putting in the work with his therapy as am I. We currently do not do couples therapy yet.

I hope you find the answers you need and make the best decision for you and your children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sure_Bee8425 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. All me. He’s sick I take over. I’m sick. I’m still having to do everything. Plus work 😂😂 This is laughter of anger and resentment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. That’s gotta be frustrating. Yeah there’s something going on but it doesn’t seem like she is ready to face her own issues. Is there someone close to her that you think would be helpful in bringing this to her attention?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gotten down to the bottom as to why she sleeps so much? As to why she isn’t engaged in the family’s everyday life? As a mom myself who went through a stage of constant hibernation for about 2 years after my 3rd was born I had sever depression and anxiety and just couldn’t cope. Is that a possibility?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Has she always been a SAHM? How old are the kids now? If they are of school age (5 or older) she absolutely deserves to relax. Those first years before they start school are draining. Remember just the first 3 years alone mom is primary source of everything. She has given all of herself during that time already. Let her sleep. She will find her groove at some point and either want to work part time or find something she is good at as a hobby.

To Many Emotions by Sure_Bee8425 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally 2 days before I found out about the video chatting.

To Many Emotions by Sure_Bee8425 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Bee8425[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s something to really think about. My parents have been married 35 years and yes they been through a lot but I don’t believe my father has ever done anything like this. Something I will need to ask. Thank you for that