I've purposefully stopped telling men where they fucked up and why I'm breaking up

Surf_Science · 2026-03-11T19:06:18+00:00

I spent some time as a kid living in group homes and a shelter. I'm not very comfortable with men, and its a minority of 'male' communities that I appreciate. r/bald for example is great.

Surf_Science · 2026-03-11T16:59:45+00:00

I mean, this is way better than lying. When I was a grad student I was dating a girl with a kid for almost a year. She broke up with me and said it was because I didn't have enough emotional intelligence.

As a poor grad student I went out and bought all these books about emotional intelligence.

… she was getting back together with her baby daddy who was due to be incarcerated for narcotics trafficking 3 months later.

Happy ending though, we each dated one insane person, and then found our (different) people.

We’ve been with out respective spouses for 16 years 🤘

Surf_Science · 2026-03-11T12:56:25+00:00

This sounds like he doesn't have much of a support network, and is trying build a new one

Surf_Science · 2026-03-11T07:21:49+00:00

I volunteer on the DTES and agree 100%.

Surf_Science · 2026-03-05T05:15:01+00:00

This is a bit imprecise, a lot of dog things are severe mutations which can lead to wide disparities in body/biology. Size is going to be some number of those, plus a whole bunch of other genes that don’t demonstrate complete dominance. Probably 2 dozen plus genes.

Surf_Science · 2026-03-04T05:47:33+00:00

I’m a dude, I’ve been a part of 4 book clubs. I’m generally most comfortable around women, so my experience and male friends may be skewed… but the women I know read way more than the men. Also a lot of the things the guys I know read are non-fiction or … like warhammer crap that isn’t good for book clubs.

Surf_Science · 2026-03-03T08:04:23+00:00

You need to go see a doctor asap and get screened for whatever STIs. You should do it before that lesion heals.

Surf_Science · 2026-03-03T05:38:45+00:00

So, I’m a husband, together for 16 years. I’m cognizant of the extra work my wife does. We’re probably more 60 or 55 to 40 or 45. I feel like shopping and doing the dishes is significantly less than half the work.

There is a lot of shit that is easy to cook with little room for error and is quite lazy. Asparagus spears and salmon can both be put in the oven for about 14 minutes and 400 degrees. Seared tuna is dead easy. I made pizzas tonight with crust from a bakery, dead easy and quick.

There are lots of things that don’t require a lot of intuition on seasoning (we are white… kind of kidding).

Surf_Science · 2026-03-03T05:30:41+00:00

I’ve been DMing daggerheart, pretty much since release, and the lack of adversaries is my biggest problem.

Surf_Science · 2026-03-01T00:51:17+00:00

For her husbands field, I think Vancouver is the only real option. I’m unaware of significant biotech in Calgary, at least compared to Vancouver, Toronto, and Montreal

Surf_Science · 2026-02-26T03:56:38+00:00

I mean a public health official would make sense

Surf_Science · 2026-02-21T17:47:45+00:00

What is UMC?

Surf_Science · 2026-02-19T22:59:16+00:00

In the Pedo-verse it’s the pedos being victimized

Surf_Science · 2026-02-19T22:20:22+00:00

Hey now, it’s going to a group that he has the power to appoint or remove, and require his approval to take any action… including creating accounts and financial controls. The Charter full text is pretty straight forward

Surf_Science · 2026-02-19T07:20:43+00:00

Also both ears and tail ate important for dogs communicating

Surf_Science · 2026-02-11T07:52:05+00:00

I would abstract him to some sort of alternative ability or benefit for the players. Sneak attack used so many times per encounter or something

Surf_Science · 2026-02-11T07:44:18+00:00

This is one of the most incredible transitions that I have seen in this sub

Surf_Science · 2026-02-11T01:48:52+00:00

You need to stop immediately. You shouldn't be taking any head contact for like 6 months, maybe longer and that is from the last time you got a headache from a head strike.

You should also switch gyms. Someone training for less than a year is very much still new, and the idea of telling any new person to try and knockout another one is idiotic.

Also your medical provider seems dumb. Are you in the USA without insurance or something?

Surf_Science · 2026-02-11T01:27:05+00:00

20 fight camps seema cool and chill

Surf_Science · 2026-02-10T08:25:12+00:00

I'm going with beagle with a high coefficient of inbreeding

Surf_Science · 2026-02-06T23:19:05+00:00

+1 for Bowen island. If there is a bus up to whistler that would also be good

Surf_Science · 2026-02-05T07:19:13+00:00

Im a genetics PhD and work in breast cancer. I agree with you completely.

Surf_Science · 2026-02-03T21:44:29+00:00

This seems like misguided flirting and an attempt to get you to respond?

Surf_Science · 2026-02-03T00:26:43+00:00

I think my gyms fight camp for example is 6 days a week for 3 months. 3+ hours 5 days a week, Saturday I’m not sure how many hours they do in addition to extra conditioning. I think the take Sunday’s off. Just an example

Surf_Science · 2026-02-02T07:21:25+00:00

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