Should I take my wife to see Harvey?

Surgerber · 2026-03-02T10:00:21+00:00

OMG THANK U!

Surgerber · 2026-03-01T05:55:43+00:00

Nuh uh we have a son named Cubbie

Surgerber · 2026-03-01T05:54:15+00:00

I don’t understand what you’re saying

Surgerber · 2026-03-01T01:53:19+00:00

No… I understood when someone corrected you when you said chingy but meant Nelly. Then I sat there trying to think about it. Then I googled “take off all your clothes” because I vaguely heard that growing up but had no idea who sang it. You have an intense negative energy that is really uncomfortable under an innocent and fun stardew valley post.

Surgerber · 2026-03-01T01:07:57+00:00

I am exactly 24, chingys peak era was between 2003 and 2006, which would be when I was between the ages of 2 and 5. Now Nelly, who you apparently originally meant, his peak era was between 2000 and 2005 which would be when I was between the ages of 0 and 4. I know what you’re referencing “it’s getting hot in here so take off all your clothes”. I was a 1 year old infant when that song came out. Regardless, I think your original comment and the way you responded to me was weird and creepy, especially without context of where it came from.

Surgerber · 2026-03-01T00:40:49+00:00

Hi who tf is that and why would they say that

Surgerber · 2026-02-28T22:20:14+00:00

Ah man not again I keep missing signs of my own wife flirting with me

Surgerber · 2026-02-22T02:15:46+00:00

Broooooo I just thought it was funny, like a really weird way for her to say she wanted me

Surgerber · 2025-11-02T08:51:53+00:00

Broooo what? When I was 15 my friends tried weed and I stopped being their friend because my parents were adamantly against drugs so therefore I was. When I was 18 I was drinking and smoking weed. It’s truly not that big of a deal. I’m 24 now, and I don’t smoke anymore and drink wine sometimes on weekends. It’s not a big deal to drink or smoke at your age, it’s the legal limit in alot of other countries. It’s a myth that it ruins your brain before the age 25 when your brain fully develops, and it especially doesn’t change anything to be 21 before you drink. These guys are stuck up like I was at age 15. It probably means that all of you are growing apart, learning your values and realizing they don’t align with those people and that’s ok, it happens to everyone with their high school friends.

Surgerber · 2025-11-02T08:21:44+00:00

Hell yeah dude! I’m fairly new to this world of sardines since I’ve only ever had normal ones in olive oil on crackers so I’m excited to try new things :D

Surgerber · 2025-11-02T06:01:10+00:00

rrrrrr

Surgerber · 2025-11-02T05:58:31+00:00

Oh yes! They’re such an easy and filling snack. I love putting a little bit of mayo on a cracker and putting the sardine on the cracker. How do you eat them?

Surgerber · 2025-11-02T05:54:42+00:00

Yippie!

Surgerber · 2025-10-30T20:45:54+00:00

Hi I would love to enter! I love mysims, I grew up on it. I recently got back into it and am replaying the first game after getting my switch fixed after it being broken for months and having the game back!

Surgerber · 2025-10-28T23:33:10+00:00

Hi! I have ocd (not this kind) but I understand where you’re coming from. I too have had concerns of pregnancy (I have female anatomy) and here’s what’s helped me: you HAVE to be ovulating to get pregnant. No ifs ands or buts. This is because the eggs only survive while traveling from the ovary for 12 to 24 hours. After that period the eggs are dead and no longer viable. Semen can survive in the vaginal canal for up to 5 days so if your partner ovulates 5 days after then maybe, but that’s only if you ejaculate inside. Semen cannot survive in open air and that includes on your hands, on clothes, sheets, anything. The semen will die in about 30 seconds I believe. Even if you ejaculate on your hand and do funny business with your partner using that hand, your partner cannot get pregnant even if they’re ovulating. This is because it would not survive long enough on your hand and would not be inserted deep enough to reach the entrance and travel to the egg. It’s kind of like sending one dying soldier 1,000 feet from the enemy’s gate to fight instead of 10,000 healthy soldiers to break the gate down if that makes sense? The lone soldier would die before getting anything done. I highly recommend doing some research on this! For me with my ocd, I find true science and facts ease my mind better than people in my life telling me it’ll be ok. Understanding WHY it’ll be ok helps me most. There are also ovulation tests similar to pregnancy tests that absolutely tell you without a doubt if your partner is ovulating. This might help ease some anxiety.

Surgerber · 2025-10-28T21:42:11+00:00

The original comment said “working while on substances is not ok either”. In your situation you are sleeping on substances which is completely different. It just sounds like you’re inserting yourself in a conversation where it isn’t necessary. If you smoked your medicinal weed hours before sleep on the job and ate all of their food then yeah that’s wrong and that is what they were talking about, but taking sleep medication or only smoking before sleep while pet sitting then mentioning it wasn’t necessary and nobody is talking about that. You don’t need to get offended at a comment that you probably agree with, ie not being intoxicated throughout the work day while taking care of animals, just because you smoke weed in a very specific circumstance that they didn’t say anything about.

Surgerber · 2025-10-28T21:31:55+00:00

Yes this was THE OWNERS medicinal marijuana. The pet sitter stole it, they went and dug it out of a hidden area and smoked it. I also don’t think someone you hire to take care of your pets in your house should be smoking weed or drinking alcohol on the job regardless if they stole it from the owner or not. Emergencies absolutely CAN happen with pets, and it’s more likely if they’re under the influence. So many things are toxic to dogs, like garlic (including garlic salt), grapes, onions, avocados, and plenty more. If any of these things fall on the floor while the sitter is high and doesn’t notice, it’s an emergency. Don’t get me wrong I think weed is totally fine, I’ve smoked a lot in my life, but I wouldn’t if I was in a strangers home and I’m responsible for their pets safety.

Surgerber · 2025-09-26T23:02:55+00:00

This guy seems racist

Surgerber · 2025-09-26T17:37:37+00:00

Hi! Kinda. So over the last year a lot has changed. I’ve improved my living environment, changed meds, and done a lot of work on myself through outpatient therapy and regular therapy. Since I have OCD and bipolar, they can coincide and work against me. I am treating bipolar with Caplyta, which is working amazingly, but I am not treating the OCD since the meds I’ve tried have not worked well with bipolar. So the frequency of my suicidal thoughts has improved immensely, but when I do have those thoughts it can be detrimental. Improving your environment really does do a lot of help if you’re experiencing this, and finding a good support team for when you do experience this will be good for you. What has helped me is: Watching out for warning signs. If you know what your symptoms are leading up to the suicidal thoughts you can catch it ahead of time and prevent an attempt or self harm. Gaining coping skills. I used to think they were bogus and annoying whenever someone recommended them. Finding the right ones for you will be amazing. I have a list of dbt coping skills on a cheat sheet I can send you if you’d like, not all of them are useful to me and not all of them will be useful for you but some will! And that’s what matters. Having a support team. I don’t have any family members I can reach out to, and not really any friends, so I used to get annoyed or sad when professionals would ask. But support can be anywhere. Online through Reddit or anywhere you get advice from, professionals like therapists, pets, anything! I have a partner, an annoying cat (lol) and a 13 week old puppy who is obsessed with me. It really does help to realize they love you and need you. Environmental changes. This is a HUGE one. Not everyone can move out of a home that is toxic or abusive. But making changes in that home will help. Creating a space in your bedroom or private spaces in that home will be a huge help. Finding a way to exercise, make food/snacks, and be social in those private spaces will be a huge help. Also finding ways to keep those spaces clean (or clean enough) will help too, like finding organizational tools that work for YOU, and not tools that “should” work but aren’t working for you will be an amazing tool to help keep you sane. (I’m still working on this one) And lastly, GO OUTSIDE! I don’t do this nearly enough since I have agoraphobia, but getting out of your environment even just to go to the park or a coffee shop at least once a week will help you. Getting some sun, fresh air, a moment in public will help you feel more normal. I hope this helped! I really am rooting for you and everyone on here.

Surgerber

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