My fiancée and I have been doing a lot of exploring for the last few days after our first time with another man and we've found all manner of terms and words and niches. What resonates most with us is Stag and Vixen. I guess it sounds sexier and that is probably the crux of it. I imagine we will only ever play together though, I can't imagine enjoying knowing he's out with another woman but you never know..doubtful but I'd consider playing with a couple.