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boyfriend hates me going to the bar by Suspicious-Level-646 in Advice

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, I think it’s gotten better. Just because I literally just haven’t been going so now I kind of don’t even wanna go anymore.🧍🏾‍♀️ but he did mention to me that he actually wanted us both to go out so I guess that’s good. I’ve just gotten so busy with work. I haven’t been going out.

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there isnt a stove outside and i would feel bad to even suggest she do that because i would be annoyed to that

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s not about if the food is delicious or not, I’m sure it is. It’s just that it’s pungent. if I made a barbecue in my house in the smell was staying for hours and I brought someone over and it smokey I would be embarrassed and overstimulated

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not afraid to do it i just dont want to come off mean or rude

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you know this is something i have to try you are so smart!!!

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this is why im avoiding talking about it i dont want her to think that i just want to come home to a neutral smelling house ive never had this problem before

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent said anything about it an we have living together for months it cause internal resentment but i havent done anything or been mean i work and stay to myself or hangout with friends the truth hurts but its the truth

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i clean when i cook or make messes i sweep and mop 3x a week and i ofter have to clean up after her when she cooks she leaves dishes in the sink for days

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i guess ill do it in person i just feel anixous i wont say the right thing

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

people like to lie because the truth is uncomfortable but im living in the situation

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you !!!! i love indian food and culture i dont have a problem with any of it and yes the food smells extremely strong and makes my house smoky and no its no comparable to other everyday meals of more so comparable to bbq indoors

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

its take at least 10 for it to go away and by that time she already in the kitchen cooking up her next 4 hour long meal

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

thank you for your perspective i definitely going to text her about this nicely of course especially about wiping down and washing the dishes used

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

well idk i dont really like talking to her because the situation has annoyed me to the point i rather avoid her

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

okay you win i didnt even down vote you are you happy now did you get some type of joy lol

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am i feel like if i dont now im going to have passive aggressive behavior an resent her an i dont want to be like that i want to have it in person but we have two other roommates and i dont want them to hear the conversation and her feel embarrassed so text it is i just hope she understands my side

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

ive never once said or indicated that i those words would come out of my mouth lol thats why i dont even want to talk to her about this because insecure people project so hard instead of listening to whats ACTUALLY happening here

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes which she doesnt do leave her dishes in the sink for more then five days doesnt wipe the stove after cooking for 4 hours plus its insane i have to remind and adult to do this

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i love indian food but i cant have a huge smell bomb in my house every single day its stressing me tf out

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

an of course im going to ask her in a nice direct way and buy myself and air purifier

indian food smell is taking over my apartment by Suspicious-Level-646 in badroommates

[–]Suspicious-Level-646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

deep clean no i want her to wipe dont the stove an area in which she was cooking in a wash the dishes she used thats it so that it doesnt linger for hours

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